Worried7 Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 cuz I'm in this situation right now & I don't know what to do..but I thought i'd dig into my thoughts and see if I can help anyone else out who is needing to break up but just can't get the strength to leave their partner..cuz people know this in their brains..but our hearts make us blind sometimes..blinded by love. I'm putting this b/c I've noticed myself saying" But I love him!" and basically what I'm saying isn't just that but all of this stuff: The reasons for needing to break up (according to what comes from my heart) but just can't get the strength are as follows: 1)Part of you is scared that you won't find someone else. 2) You don't want to throw all of the good memories away even though what you're dealing with now isn't so good. 3) You're just so scared of the pain that is to come after you break up b/c you love the person so dearly & have always told yourself that you couldn't live without the person.. 4) Not knowing what to expect about your partners reactions or how your future will be whether your single or not, and just how it's going to be from then on. 5)You're so scared of the pain that is to come when You think of them in the future or something reminds you of them & don't know if you can handle it. 6) you're scared since everything in the world reminds you of them because they wereyour world, that you'll just fall apart in public & just constantly not be able to stop crying. 7) You're scared you'll find someone else and they'll be the same way 8) you're scared that he'll find someone else & fall in love..and you'll have to see their pictures & think that you still won't be over him 9) You don't think you'll ever get over him. 10)You just love him more than anything in the world & don't think you can live without him & wonder what could have been! What to do if you're like "omgsh that's me!what do i do?" My situation with my guy is getting out of hand..so If he doesn't fix it, i've just GOT to let him go b/c though I know it would be painful without him, I know that i won't ever be happy 100% with him that's why I'm crying right now..So ladies & gents going through this right now..Let's realize that Yes,it's going to hurt like a bitch..but that we may and WILL find someone who will treat us right and if we don't we'll go break up with them and find someone who WILL. Cuz we all deserve what is best for us..and sometimes that's going on without the ones we love..b/c just b/c we love somene, doesn't mean we have to put up with their crap. So if you're not being treated right, let's all stay strong and do this together as one. People go through this all of the time..it may not feel like it but it's true ( keep that in mind! people everywhere can relate!) Comment if you would like. love, worried7
tine_23 Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 Oh my! I'm all of these from 1 to 10... I've had the strenght to break up with him thought... I miss him so much.. I stil see him sometimes when we meet with friends...and my god I just wanna rip all of his clothes off ahah! It's hard...but I'll get over it! Stay strong!
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