SexGoddess Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 He controls everything I do without being direct about it. Like he gives an excuse for it & somehow I fall for it every time & don't realize it till someone else points it out. Like he'll say..do you have homework? go do it before I call u. Don't do it after I call you. And "don't tell your friends we were fighting" and "dont' hang out with her" & " get over your problems I'm tired of hearing about them You're stressing me out I'm tired of your crap." and " do this, do that, don't do that!!, etc" It's starting to take a toll on our relationship.. And alot of the time, he'll blame me for whatever it is..like "well I wouldn't tell u to do that if you didn't do such and such things.. I'm tired of your crap..you're killing me" what should I Do??? He blames me for EVERYTHING..and the sad thing is, is I love him so much I can't help but believe him until I go back through what he said to me. I don't think he notices he's doing it..I don't know..
newbby Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 loving someone doesnt mean you have to put up with their crap. what should you do? maybe dump him. if not then at least every time he tells you to do something, just say "okay dear" and then do the exact opposite of what he tells you. he will soon stop telling you what to do.
Sally00 Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 How about you tell him how you feel... My boyfriend plays around and tries to "control" me. But I'm like, "Psshh.. screw you." Or I say, "Boy, do it yourself." But we're just joking around. Tell your guy that you don't appreciate how he treats you and if he really loves you, he would be considerate of your feelings. If he doesn't change the way he acts, you should dump him. You could be missing out on someone better.
quankanne Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 loving someone doesn't mean putting up with rude, controlling, abusive or disagreeable behavior. Frankly, he sounds like poison and you need to RUN as far as you can from this guy. A broken heart heals much more quickly than a broken spirit, and that's where this guy is headed ~ to break your spirit. you deserve much, much better than that.
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