mabyeAfool Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 I just broke up with my first real girlfriend after about 1.5 years (im 25 now), she is very sweet pretty talented funny etc... Up to the point of breaking up i had not totally opened up myself to her and had not even told her i had loved her. I recently moved away and we decided to ty the long distance thing. After a month I believed that I wanted to date other people as I have had not much expieience with that type of thing. I thought it would be a straight forward thing, but after breaking up with her I slowly began feeling worse and worse, I now cant concentrate on anything and am constantly close to tears. She did not take the break up well and I dont think there is any middle ground with her on this. Its only been 2 days but I feel that if I dont act quickly I might lose a great love for super dumb/selfish reasons. Please help...
norajane Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 How far away did you move, and is there a realistic chance that you would ever live in the same city again some time in the near future? If not, breaking up is really the best thing to do. It hurst now, but you will eventually move on.
mabyeAfool Posted August 21, 2006 Posted August 21, 2006 thanks for the response norajane, i moved about a 5 hour drive away, so its not impossible and i am in the process of looking for a job which might lead be back to where she lives because that is the hotspot for my profession. i feel that i might still be thinking with my heart, but it clouds everything else so i cannot tell. unelss i here more from others i will wait at least until saturday to contact her back . id welcome anyeones opninions thank you
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