lovestrucksweetie Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 Ok, here's my problem of the month. When my boyfriend has friends over he totally tunes me out. Like right now he has about 6 friends over and he is like glued talking to his chick friend. He does the stupidest stuff too like he talks all perverted around them and acts all high and mighty...........yet he expects me to go and socialize when I am beat tired and have a 5 month old niece to watch. Grrrrrr why does this frustrate me so much anyone please input would be nice..............
Yoohoo Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 If he's acting all high and mighty, he's probably just trying to impress you by showing that he's the alpha male amongst his social group... And what are you doing on the computer when you could be hanging out with him and getting to know his friends? If you got to know them better, maybe it'd be easier for all of you to hang out together...that'd make it easier for everyone
Diver012 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 If he's acting all high and mighty, he's probably just trying to impress you by showing that he's the alpha male amongst his social group... And what are you doing on the computer when you could be hanging out with him and getting to know his friends? If you got to know them better, maybe it'd be easier for all of you to hang out together...that'd make it easier for everyone What Yoohoo said. It sounds to me like your a little jealous that his attention is focused elsewhere. I would socialize with his friends and get to know them. Hell, even invite some of your own over and make a party out it...
Sally00 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 My boyfriend doesn't totally tune me out when he's with his friends. He atleast lets me know I still exist... little things like smiling at me, bringing me into the conversation, holding my hand, etc. He even says he's sorry for talking to his friends so much sometimes. An unnecessary apology... but still sweet. So I don't blame you for being frustrated. Maybe you could try being part of the conversation and not feeling left out. Tell him how you feel.
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