Thetabeta Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 I have been dating Brian for 3 months. He recently moved to a different city for his education. We met in Raleigh, we both worked at the same restaurant. He asked me to hang out one night and ever since then we have been together. At first it was odd because we only saw each other at night and it wasn't even every night. I soon realized it was this way because we saw each other at work some nights and he was tired after getting off. However, if we did not see each other at work, he would always call. It didn't matter. So, eventually it got to the point where we would see each other everyday sometimes spending the whole day/night together and the next. It was nice. He popped the ' I love you' when I wasn't expecting it, but I felt the same way, so it was okay. He even went into detail about how I'm different that the other girls he has dated and that he sees himself with me for a long time. Now, he is gone. Living in a different city. He's been gone for 3 weeks. I have seen him once since the separation. Is it wrong of me to want to see him more than that since we are only an hour apart? I asked him to come to Raleigh this weekend and was told no, he doesnt like coming back to Raleigh and it has nothing to do with me. There are some days where I don't hear from him and he doesn't return phone calls like normal people. He hates having a phone and so it makes things harder. I guess I am wondering if it is pointless to try and make this work. I love him, I really do. And the good times outweigh the bad, but is it worth going through these hurt emotions everyday on someone you don't know if you can count on? I went the whole day without calling him. You can say that I was testing him to see if he would call. And he did. I didn't answer the call, he left a message. The message was brief, like all the other ones. I called back, we chatted for a few minutes and was hurt that he was spending his night with other girls, when he could have been hanging out with me. (This is all anger here.) Any advice? (Sorry this is long, won't happen again)
Diver012 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 I would say its worth upset emotions. For me personally, if I loved someone and they were an hour away, that sure as hell wouldnt stop me from wanting to see them. I would be driving my ass off every freakin day. Hell, I used to commute to work and it took over an hour just to get there. I cant imagine not wanting to drive 1 stupid hour to see the one you love. I know you love him, and the good times outway the bad, but I don't like what im hearing. I think you will get to a point with this where the bad starts to outway the good. I hope it works out for you in the end, but I would be upset if I were you.
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