People who are struggling to get over their first loves

[Brittanyjean06]

Well I am momentarily in a up beat kind of mood, a good mood a mood where you realize you got your whole life ahead of you to live. Look I am struggling to get over an ex and I know in time I will be completely over it. I wish I could just get out what I feel inside but sometimes its hard to put in to words your true point. A year is not enough time to really get over some one well your first love, some people do and some people don't. Its not abnormal to still feel the heart ache of your first love a year later, your young and I'm sure this first love took out a huge chunk out of your life. You haven't seen too much of the other side to really be fully over it, you haven't had those cuple of years to truely matture and grow. Be lucky it has been a year because I know you have those great days, and I'm sure our ex's weren't all that great, well mine wasn't at all. I won't lie it will take sometime but you will get it out of your system one day, my best friend went through it and it took 2 years and I am shocked that she is in love with someone else right now...and me and her are on the same emotional level, were exactly alike. It takes more than a year, and two years to me is not a long time not at all. Time goes by quick it really does and it might just take another love for you to forget all about your ex. Not a rebound but a new love, so hang in there and know that you will get through it. I bet people are surprised that I am writing this considering I am always the one to post threads venting and ranting. It doesn't feel like you'll get over it but its only been a year or two years for some...If you feel like you can't do any better than your ex than you won't get over it. Don't pity your self either, be strong and proud and know that there are people worse off.

 

I never really thought anyone else shared the same heart ache as I did, I always feel like no one could possibly know how I feel, its not just a pain but an eery feeling. To where the air you breath just reminds you of the past with them and hurts like crap...but thats normal. Some days I get worse but than when I get worse I get better in about two days I realize I need to try harder and be happier.. So when I have those relapses they make it better for me. I think when your at a critical point in your life you can turn it in to something beautiful say music, art or poetry, Though my skills with poems kind of suck I enjoy getting out the hurt and numbness I feel, it helps so much. I know your searching for answers and all we want is for people to tell us we will get through it, and possibly what we want to hear. You don't know how your life story will turn out but the chances of you loving again are pretty high

[loveinlife]

Wouldn't it be nice to see ourselves getting better. Its such a wonderful thought. You sound to be doing so well Brittanyjean06. Keep up the great work. =)

[Brittanyjean06]

Oh believe me its still really hard and still really hurts....I am just sticking my grounds and know I could have done better...Try to be strong did this girl break up with you tell me what happend