Ruff Ryder Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Hi All Ive been here for close on a yesr.... Ive read every book on the topic and some that arnt. Lets get started, You miss your ex you want them back and you cant let go? The story of my life. Lets be real here no matter who left who the end of the day its over pack up and move on. Ive held on to the "idea" that my ex and I will work things out and guess what Im still not with "my lady of my dreams" Cut back to basics. The reason its over is not valid the "what it" is all you think about? It was like that for me. If I only knew then what i know now things would be different. QUESTION: who is in controll of what you think and in return feel? The answer is YOU........ Who creats your reality? You who is in full controll? YOU. What Im saying here if your still in pain thats you not your ex if you live in fear thats you not your ex. Let it go. You were happy before you will be again. It takes time time is all that you have on your side. I have spent 1 year trying everything to "win" her back and guess what one year later I'm not over her not even close... Is that my fault YES YES YES it is. I didnt let go I didnt see the light I didnt move on. I have broken 4 hearts this year alone because I didnt let go. I still feel the pain every day but Im closer now thatn ever before. Im have met my fears and im dealing with them ALONE and Im no longer scared. I've been around been hurt and hurt people too. its all part of life. NO CONTACT the famous words. Use them and use them always stick to it and make a change in your life and be the person everyone whats to love. Im 25 years old but none the less I have seen the pain felt it still feel it but Im moveing on in lirfe I can make the change in me. i have a date with a 29 year old model today. I hope it is good. Just live in the present cause the past cant be changed nad the future hasnt arrived yet. Godd luck all
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