Guest Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 I was with my girlfriend for around 1 1/2 years. Things were very serious between us and we were very much in love. We both graduated college this past may and decided to move from Oklahoma to the Carolinas together. She is attending grad school about 80 minutes from where I live. We had problems over the summer and fought alot, alot during a transition time that was hard for both of us. It was very hard for me to show her that I cared about her in the ways which she wanted to be shown. I was also trying to "live it up" and do all the things I couldnt' do out here before I left (I just never thought that one of them was being with her). During the summer, I kissed two other girls...one of which I was giving some of my attention to for a while. I then realized that I really cared about this girl and quit talking to her and re-directing my energy back to my gf. Around the same time,During her last two weeks there in OK, she started hanging out with another guy alot. She cheated on me (I was already here, she hadn't moved yet) with him for 2 days b/f she left and when she got out here I found out b/c I was there when his flowers to her were delivered. From checking her emails (i know her password) She is very wrapped up in this guy and they are bf/gf and she keeps saying what a joy it is to have someone treat her well. I know hardly anyone besides my roomate in this new city and am having a hard time with all this. I want her back b/c I love her so much and would do anythign for her that it is my fault, but I also know that any measures I take could be counteractive. Also I know I should move on. Any suggestions?
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