Loserdude Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 For a little background, please review my other post. The girlfriend/stripper broke up with me (too complicated for here) but there was no yelling, etc. In talking to her today, she will be going back to the stripping job (i.e., deal-breaker for me) and she also tells me, get this, that she goes to someone who beats the crap out of her for money. I am not kidding. (I am tempted to put his name here - he's somewhat famous - not Hollywood famous but known enough.) Now before everyone yells, "She's nuts, get rid of her!" what if I really do love her or even if I don't? Don't I have some responsibility to her to not let her do this? I told her it breaks my heart to know this choice of hers but should I be more forceful? Any thoughts?
magda Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Is she not capable of making grown up decisions for some reason? If so then maybe you should intervene in some way. If she has weighed her options and chooses the money, then butt out. Depending on your breakup though, she might be telling you this just to gauge how much you care about her. Like, if you let her do this, you don't really love her, or she's getting back at you, something like that.
Author Loserdude Posted August 21, 2006 Author Posted August 21, 2006 Hi magda. I am surprised at how insightful your response was. She perhaps is incapable but more from a deeply troubled psychological reason. I did in fact intervene and I simply said that I would pay her the money to not see him. I just care too much to let her do that and it's only money, right?
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