lovelorcet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 If you never want to have kids then get your tubes cut. I think the kids issue is just a façade for you. When it really comes down to it is it possible that you are just too insecure for intimacy or let alone sex? I see that time of the month as a challenge. If you can get a girl hot enough to want you when she is menstruating then you can boost your ego a bit. I even make a little game out of it for myself. You can write the days in a calendar for most gals. Variations of this have worked for me many times. She comes home from a days of work and I have a hot bath all prepared with the whole 9 yards going in the bath room, candles, bath oils, music… Then I have a nice meal going in the kitichen for her and whenever she is done in the tub we can start with a glass of wine and then the meal… And so on I think you get the picture. This kind of stuff also works at all other times of the month as well… My point is maybe you should put a little more energy into making sure you are meeting her emotional and physical needs and less time dwelling on your own insecurities or sampling home cleaning products…
leopardprint Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 She's telling you the truth. She's not in the mode to have sex during her period - that is that. You assume everything this girl says to you is a lie and she's hiding something from you in all of your posts. Get over your insecurities and look at her for who she is. She's not playing you or lying to you. Give her the respect and trust she deserves.
rina_r Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 I'm opposed to intercourse because I don't want to have children. Simple really. Have you heard of birthcontrol, dude? If you are that scared, use two methods at the same time, like condom + spermicide foam or something.
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Rina- he responded to this idea earlier. Speaking of spermicide... I have an idea. John- Instead of bleach, next time swallow spermicide!!!!!!!!! Perhaps that way you will rid your body of sperm, and you will be able to feel comfortable enjoying the pleasure of intercourse with your GF- WORRY FREE!! Plus, you will get to taste spermicide... two birds and all that
erika2610 Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Rina- he responded to this idea earlier. Speaking of spermicide... I have an idea. John- Instead of bleach, next time swallow spermicide!!!!!!!!! Perhaps that way you will rid your body of sperm, and you will be able to feel comfortable enjoying the pleasure of intercourse with your GF- WORRY FREE!! Plus, you will get to taste spermicide... two birds and all that Apparently.. there are 2 John's here? This is the one that swallowed bleach because he felt like it, isn't it? That says it all right there. :::major issues:::
lovelorcet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Sometimes I really wonder if john1776 is for real...
stoopid_guy Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 John- Instead of bleach, next time swallow spermicide!!!!!!!!! Perhaps that way you will rid your body of sperm, and you will be able to feel comfortable enjoying the pleasure of intercourse with your GF- WORRY FREE!! Plus, you will get to taste spermicide... two birds and all that Pink, you really have it in for this guy! Spermacide tastes like... well, NOT GOOD!
a4a Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 There is a chance since you will not have intercourse with your gf (she feels rejected/unsatisfied) that she could indeed be pulling back from you. Perhaps you need to pose the question: How can I keep my gf sexually satisfied and happy even though I refuse to have sex with her? Perhaps she is asking her friends or posting to a forum about your lack of interest in sex with her?
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 After 3.5 years of this with him? She is probably beating her head against a brick wall.
leopardprint Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 I don't have it in for him. Good guy Lies!! :lmao: After 3.5 years of this with him? She is probably beating her head against a brick wall. I posted my thoughts on him and her recently in his other thread. I wouldn't be surprised if his girlfriend is some confused, battered chick posting here on LS.org as well, trying to get herself some help and some relief from dealing with him!
a4a Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 After 3.5 years of this with him? She is probably beating her head against a brick wall. Or she could be getting pony rides on the side. 3.5 years....... 28 yrs old... unless she is in a vegetative state the woman is probably finding some way to keep herself satisfied.
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 LOL- ahh, good times a4a. I lost my virginity on the back of a pony, seriously
lovelorcet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 LOL- ahh, good times a4a. I lost my virginity on the back of a pony, seriously ok so that has to be an interesting stroy...
Toni_no12002 Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 You seem like your not very experienced.Some women like having sex at that time of the month.Some dont but if you was bleeding out your penis would you want to have sex??? At that time of the month theres alsorts going on.You can be moody and things.Because someone doesnt want to have sex all the time doesnt mean anythings wrong.Sex isnt everything.You can talk and things.
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 ok so that has to be an interesting stroy... Not at all actually. I have been told it's fairly common. I was riding a horse when I was 11 and when I got home my undies had blood on them. It turns out my hymen broke
a4a Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Not at all actually. I have been told it's fairly common. I was riding a horse when I was 11 and when I got home my undies had blood on them. It turns out my hymen broke I never heard of it...... but then again maybe nobody I know talks about that sort of thing?
lovelorcet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Not at all actually. I have been told it's fairly common. I was riding a horse when I was 11 and when I got home my undies had blood on them. It turns out my hymen broke Ok so I thought there was a guy involved... It must take a lot of work to have sex on a horse, I doubt that is the thing to try for your first time
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Hahahaha- Is that what you thought I meant! Well damn, I can see why it could have been percieved that way oops a4a- That is what my doctor and my mummy said anyway! I will google it (it's a more reliable source *rolls eyes*)
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Courtesy of Goaskalice.com (can you say- alice? alice? Who the f*ck is alice? *I loved that song* ).... "Strenuous activities, such as bicycle riding, horseback riding, stretching, or dancing, can also cause the hymen to break".
a4a Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Courtesy of Goaskalice.com (can you say- alice? alice? Who the f*ck is alice? *I loved that song* ).... "Strenuous activities, such as bicycle riding, horseback riding, stretching, or dancing, can also cause the hymen to break". sure yeah..... ummm humm....... likely story to cover up sexual activity
lovelorcet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Seems like we lost John1776... Hope he is not off sampling again...
Pink Amulet Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 sure yeah..... ummm humm....... likely story to cover up sexual activity Yes, I admit it. I was the elementary school bicycle. By the time I hit 6th grade, every one had had a ride.
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