vi_pn Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 It's about my "casual lover" relationship. I recently got my license to be an insurance agent. My guy is a sales rep for a well known company. Since my fellow agent is big into networking and making new leads to prosper our business, I thought it would be a good idea to ask my guy if he wanted to meet him so they both could get leads from each other, which means more money in both of their pockets, not to mention mine because of my agent. Well I called him last Friday & left a message asking if he wanted to meet with my agent this week. But I haven't heard from him, and I thought WTF why wouldn't he jump on an opportunity to expand his business career? I was going to call him again, to let him know that my agent wouldn't be able to because he's going out of town. But whats the point if he hasn't even called me back about it? Another thing...I remembered what he told me when we first met about the job that he quit. He used to be a pharmaceutical rep, but he apparently quit because he thought it was a "woman's job" especially because he had a woman as a boss. Is he threatened by a strong woman? He is the macho, big ego type so I'm thinking that he had a hard time taking a woman's orders. Well now since I have a new powerful job will he eventually feel threatened by me? Is he the type that has a hard time commiting? Throughout our relationship I've sorta put on a innocent kinda personality. Now that I'm showing my strong business side, will it turn him off? I thought he would gain more respect for me? Or is he just really immature for a 31 year-old?
P1xie Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 I wouldn't feel that he was threatened. I would more feel like he knows how to do his job, has his own connections and really doesn't want your help.
Yamaha Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 If you think he is all those things why are you even having a "casual relationship" with him? Are you attracted to a macho, egotistical kind of guy? If you find out he is threatened by a strong women, how will you react to him?
Author vi_pn Posted August 18, 2006 Author Posted August 18, 2006 If you think he is all those things why are you even having a "casual relationship" with him? Are you attracted to a macho, egotistical kind of guy? If you find out he is threatened by a strong women, how will you react to him? Believe it or not...I'm slowly losing feelings for him as we speak...just for the simple fact he doesn't seem to take me seriously or his job. And screw what he thinks, that just means he's insecure around women...including me..and that's not the type of guy I want to spend the rest of my life with.
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