LilMa06 Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 Hey All, I posted a few weeks ago about my ex and all the things he did and how he said he made a big mistake and all...well...I were just starting to feel strong and secure with the decision i had made to stop letting him manipulate me, it helped by reading alot of the posts here and also he came over this monday, he came back into town to take care of some business for his son who's still here, he tells me still how much he wants to be in my arms and how much he can't stand being with her. I asked him where his wife was while he was with me and he said "In the hotel" and i said " I thought you said she wasn't coming" and he told me that she made a big fuss about being alone so she came and i asked him where did he tell her he was going and he said " Hanging out" believe it or not, that did it for me! I had thought to myself, wow, that's the same sh#t he used to tell me! And i knew at that moment that he hadn't changed and i felt sorry for her. My dilemma is that i was put in alot of debt because of him and so my apartment is in his name which makes me have to be polite and speak to him from time to time...Today, i received a phone call from his wife...Ooh yeah and she told me that she read an email that i had sent to him asking him why he had lied to me about getting married and then sleeping with me right after and that's not the screwed up part...she said the email was sent to her but it didn't say who it was from but my name was signed at the end now i know for dam sure i didn't send that so my guess was that maybe some one else who got into his email sent it or maybe she did and doesn't wnat to tell him she got it from his, i don't know, i'm just trying to figure this out! She wasn't mean to me, she just asked me some questions in his presence mind you and i were honest about everything and she told me some things that he lied to me about, suddenly he couldn't take it anymore and started cussing at her and i was like oh my God, I don't need this and what nerve he has, he is the liar but, he was throwing it off on her saying how he wasn't gonna take this from her they were yelling and then the phone hang up, then a few minutes later, she called me back and the phone hang up again, about half hour later he called and told me he was sorry and i told him i didn't need this and he said he would leave me alone from now on and that he tried to shoot himself and i asked if he did anything to her and he promised me he didn't, then he asked me why didn't i lie to her about us sleeping together when she asked and i went off and told him that this all came about because of him lying and a few other things but this post is long as hell already! I'm worried and i wish that she would call me and maybe she and i can talk about some things and help eachother find closure because he won't tell the truth, if this makes sense. My situation is sort of different because i weren't chased by some random married man, we were engaged and broke up, he married someone else behind my back and was still sleeping with me...everything is out in the open now and i really doubt that it's close to being over, any advice? should i speak with her if she calls again because i'm not going to call her??
newbby Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 omg, this sounds crazy. he sounds crazy. can you find out the hotel? its probably better if you just keep away from completely, on the other hand, perhaps you could both help each other in that.
Author LilMa06 Posted August 17, 2006 Author Posted August 17, 2006 Shes not here in the hotel anymore, they went back to Kentucky yesterday so she called me from there
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