Tenorman Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 Diver012, Forgive me if I read too much into your post but do you think your ex "dumped" you because she wanted you to understand how she felt when you moved the first time? Are you hoping that she is now observing you from a distance to see how you carry yourself and whether your love for her continues to be "true"? That is, a reconciliation on equal terms at some point?
Diver012 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 Diver012, Forgive me if I read too much into your post but do you think your ex "dumped" you because she wanted you to understand how she felt when you moved the first time? Are you hoping that she is now observing you from a distance to see how you carry yourself and whether your love for her continues to be "true"? That is, a reconciliation on equal terms at some point? No I was a little unclear in my wording. When I say I met my Ex at work, I didnt mean my old Ex from Ohio, I met a new woman, who is now my latest Ex. The woman I left behind in Ohio, I never heard from again... cant say I blame her either.. <.... side note
Author LaraV Posted August 19, 2006 Author Posted August 19, 2006 Interesting. Very interesting. Thank you all so much for the insights and answers so far. I really appreciate them. It's really hard for me not to make this about me, you know. I mean, either way, whether it is me, or it is "his circumstances" (whatever those may be) the point is that he kicked me out of the equation. I know I have to respect that decision, but man it hurts. I keep thinking lately about this line he gave me: "I don't want you to be a low priority..." He makes it sound like he didn't have control over it. I wanted so bad to say, "Then DON'T make me a low priority..." But I knew I couldn't do that. I just feel so bad. Like I can't believe this happened to me. In the past, I've been in LTRs in which no matter how much cr*ap was going on in my life (and there was plenty of stress - career, etc.) I made it work. Because I knew those men were worth the effort, you know? I feel like I wasn't even worth the effort for this guy. I feel so sh*ty. So incredibly heartbroken. But anyway, thank you all for your points of view. They've been very valuable.
superconductor Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 I just feel so bad. Like I can't believe this happened to me... I feel like I wasn't even worth the effort for this guy...I feel so sh*ty. So incredibly heartbroken. Nothing wrong with feeling lousy about this turn of events. Take your time to heal, cry if you feel like it, get mad if you feel like it (but I'd suggest refraining from punching walls or throwing dishes, lest you wind up with a busted hand and shattered crockery). You'll be ok. We're here to help, even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes.
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