Tweetybird1 Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 Hi Everyone, I need advice, I had a one night stand with a great guy I met at a friend's party 5 days ago. This is the very first time I had ever done anything like that. Before we ended up together that night, he gave me his phone number. I am having a hard time with this, because I know I'll run into him again through a mutual friend and I would really like to. I know how men think of women over these things. I want to call and say hi and just chat for alittle bit to kind of check out the response before we do see each other. The next morning I took off without saying bye, I was freaked out, but really liked him. Should I or not? I'm lost!!!!!
Returning Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 You've done nothing wrong. Maybe act a bit aloof when you next meet, be pleasant, have a smile, intimate how lucky he was and let him know if he plays his cards right you may consider doing it again. But let him chase you a bit first don't just give it up, see what he's made of. With luck he will woo you and you can be full of confidence in your relationship.
Author Tweetybird1 Posted August 17, 2006 Author Posted August 17, 2006 Hi Returning, Thanks for your advice. But, here's the one problem, I'm not sure exactly when that will be and I'd kind of like to just get a response and break the ice. Is that a bad idea?
Tenorman Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 He's either delighted that you left without saying goodbye as it saved him the trouble of kicking you out of bed or if he genuinely likes you he may be feeling just as freaked out and lost as you by your leaving without any message and has no idea whether to call you.
superconductor Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 I know how men think of women over these things. And what, pray tell, is your interpretation of how men think of these women? I want to call and say hi and just chat for alittle bit to kind of check out the response before we do see each other. By all means, call him. Not only will it ease your concerns, it may be the start of something very special. Then again, maybe not. You'll never know unless you actually do something.
Yamaha Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 By all means call him but do not get back in the sack immediately. Let him know you like him and want to get to know HIM. If he feels more towards you then he will stick around. If not then he was just a one-night -stand.
Wild Card 45 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 If you do not give it a try you will only have the "what if" to fill your mind.
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