Meaplus3 Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 I just have to laugh here!! If you read back on my post's you will see that I have been involved in a E/A and slight P/A with the MM next door for months now. Well it pretty much has ended and to keep the peace in our small community we are trying to remain friendly. However, I have to laugh my *** off at how much I have inflated this man's EGO! I see him walking around thinking he is just all that and it's so funny. I find that by ignoring him he even struts his stuff more and I can't help but crack up! Just an update on my situation and a few thought's. Thank's
inarut Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 I just have to laugh here!! If you read back on my post's you will see that I have been involved in a E/A and slight P/A with the MM next door for months now. Well it pretty much has ended and to keep the peace in our small community we are trying to remain friendly. However, I have to laugh my *** off at how much I have inflated this man's EGO! I see him walking around thinking he is just all that and it's so funny. I find that by ignoring him he even struts his stuff more and I can't help but crack up! Just an update on my situation and a few thought's. Thank's I COULDN'T AGREE WITH YOU MORE!!!!
silktricks Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 IHowever, I have to laugh my *** off at how much I have inflated this man's EGO! I see him walking around thinking he is just all that and it's so funny. I find that by ignoring him he even struts his stuff more and I can't help but crack up! Just an update on my situation and a few thought's. Thank's Sounds like you're getting better. (I personally think most A's are all about the MM's ego.)
stillhere Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 I think for my MM, it was an ego boost. I was the hot chick everyone wanted, and he got me. To this day, he's very jealous of the attention i draw, and he claims that i'm "too hot" for him. I can't see where he's coming from, but i'm not going to argue either! For a very strong and independant man, i am his weak point. I've seen a very emotional side of him that no one has seen. To me, that is an ego boost. So i guess it works both ways. I conquered a stubborn soul, and he won his prize. I'm not trying to flaunt here, just trying to see the humor in a twisted situation!
Author Meaplus3 Posted August 18, 2006 Author Posted August 18, 2006 Sounds like you're getting better. (I personally think most A's are all about the MM's ego.) Thank's silktricks I am on the road to recovery from this! I need to find the humor in this situation to be able to deal with it! I find by taking it more light hearted I don't think of it seriously. Seriously is what got me into trouble in the first place! AP:)
PoshPrincess Posted August 18, 2006 Posted August 18, 2006 Thank's silktricks I am on the road to recovery from this! I need to find the humor in this situation to be able to deal with it! I find by taking it more light hearted I don't think of it seriously. Seriously is what got me into trouble in the first place! AP:) Nice one, AP37. You've gotta laugh at these situations, otherwise you'll only cry. I think for a lot of these MMs it's an ego thing, especially the ones who have been married for years and lacking in female attention. V sad. I guess a little flattery does brighten up one's day but they seem to just things just that little bit further unfortunately. Don't lose your sense of humour. You're doing good!
freakygal78 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 Yes, I have to laugh at myeself in my situation too otherwise I'd do my head in! It's funny to watch these guys esp the MM at my work strut down the corridor with head held high looking so self-important and then do that little head turn to the side to check whether I'm perving at him (which of course I am otherwise I wouldn't see it!) <<chucklez>> Also the way he said that finding out I was attracted to him was 'pretty wicked' after being with his wife for 8 years. Imagine a 40yo European man saying something like this with a wry grin on his face. It still sends me into gales. It sounded like he was trying to sound young and with it! So funny especially since at 28 not even I speak this way! Sorry not trying to be perverse here - as it is a wrong situation but you have to laugh at them strutting around like peacocks etc.
whichwayisup Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 What an ego trip for the MM. No wonder MM never leave their wives or want to end a relationship with OW on the side. The best of BOTH worlds...Even if he is good in bed, makes his wife feel good, makes his OW feel good - Remember, it's ALL about him...And he knows it too. Not malciously, but very selfishly - He knows what to say and how to act around both women so all his needs are taken care of and both women are happy enough so things won't change. THe thing is, the minute the "balance" is off - OW becomes too needy or serious, asking him to leave his wife - That is when things change for him and he backs off. It's such a pattern. *I posted that on another thread (I like being the mistress)* read this thread now and thought I'd copy and paste my reply here.
mistaken.2006 Posted August 19, 2006 Posted August 19, 2006 What an ego trip for the MM. No wonder MM never leave their wives or want to end a relationship with OW on the side. The best of BOTH worlds...Even if he is good in bed, makes his wife feel good, makes his OW feel good - Remember, it's ALL about him...And he knows it too. Not malciously, but very selfishly - He knows what to say and how to act around both women so all his needs are taken care of and both women are happy enough so things won't change. THe thing is, the minute the "balance" is off - OW becomes too needy or serious, asking him to leave his wife - That is when things change for him and he backs off. It's such a pattern. That is so true for my situation! I really believe that about my MM. Well, it has been two weeks today with NC and I am okay. Staying busy and lots and lots of praying!
Author Meaplus3 Posted August 19, 2006 Author Posted August 19, 2006 What an ego trip for the MM. No wonder MM never leave their wives or want to end a relationship with OW on the side. The best of BOTH worlds...Even if he is good in bed, makes his wife feel good, makes his OW feel good - Remember, it's ALL about him...And he knows it too. Not malciously, but very selfishly - He knows what to say and how to act around both women so all his needs are taken care of and both women are happy enough so things won't change. THe thing is, the minute the "balance" is off - OW becomes too needy or serious, asking him to leave his wife - That is when things change for him and he backs off. It's such a pattern. *I posted that on another thread (I like being the mistress)* read this thread now and thought I'd copy and paste my reply here. Oh whichwayisup, you always know just how to say it! I think that's just what happend in my senerio! We got to the point of talking about leaving spouses and the man RAN like H*LL, LOL! Guess I spooked him! Oh, well I am much better off in the long run! AP:)
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