freestyln714 Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 Okay, I made a really good friend and we ended up being "friends with benefits" and at first I thought it was totally cool, but as we continued our relationship I've found that I really have feelings for her. Now of course I haven't told her that out of fear of her not returning the feelings, and I decided to just wait it out and see what happened. Now she is going out with her best friend and I don't know if she has feelings for me or what. I ask because the night before they were going out I was up at her place and we were fooling around a little bit. Then the next time she came over, after she told me she had a boyfriend, we still flirted and I was kind of touchy, but it didn't seem like she minded or anything. So I have two questions. 1) Does she have feelings for me or what? 2) Is it wrong of me to be trying to get her while she has a boyfriend. I'm not worried about getting my ass kicked or anything, belive me, I can handle myself, but I still don't wont to disrespect him, but at the same time, I have feelings for her.
Violet87 Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 Ah, the FWB (Friends with benefits) situation. Generally, it's best not to get involved in those situations because often times one person starts having feelings for the other person who may not repriocate those feelings. Often times FWB result in hurt feelings and damaged relationships. Since you're finding yourself falling for the girl, I recommend that you end the FWB. She has a boyfriend now and I think you'll only get hurt if you continue the FWB with her. 1) Does she have feelings for me or what? Not certain, but chances are she just likes the attention and not looking for a real relationship with you. It sounds like she's just playing games. 2) Is it wrong of me to be trying to get her while she has a boyfriend. I'm not worried about getting my ass kicked or anything, belive me, I can handle myself, but I still don't wont to disrespect him, but at the same time, I have feelings for her. Yes, she told you she has a boyfriend so you're going to have to respect that. If she wanted to be with you enough then she would be with you instead of getting a boyfriend. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Don't let her play you like this.
rina_r Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 I feel sorry for the boyfriend - got a cheating g/f.
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