playing hard to get?

[surferkid]

i have been friends with this girl for like 2 years, she liked me about a year ago but i told her i just wanted to be friends. now we are really good friends, but im starting to like her alot but i dont know how she feels about me. she constantly sends me mixed signals like she jokingly makes fun of me and stuff but she calls me cute. she gets mad if i dont call her but other times i call her and she acts like she doesnt want to talk to me. she will call me and want to hangout but then other times i call her wanting to do something and she acts like she doesnt have time for me. i cant tell if she doesnt like me or if shes just playing hard to get. advice?

[P1xie]

Maybe you should tell her how you feel. You can't expect much right now since you told her at a earlier time that you just wanted to be friends.

 

Let's face sometimes friends have time for you sometimes they don't. Actually sometimes bf/gf have time for you sometimes they don't. So even if she does like there maybe times that she has other things to do or you may of other things to do.

 

I don't think she's playing hard to get since you told her you only wanted to be friends. How does she know if you have changed your mind?

[Yoohoo]

Hard to get? Nah, I think she might be feeling the same as you...what if she wanted to be more than friends too, and you never knew because you didn't bring it up? Go talk to her about it!

[john1776]

I can tell you that I did my fair share of playing hard to get back in high school. That's how I got some girls to flirt with me constantly.

[monkey00]

Well, what's her situation...does she have a bf or mention someone she likes?

 

If a guy hangs out with a girl 1on1 a lot, typically there's soemthing between the 2 which either doesnt want to admit.

Even better she's 'staying' around with you to wait for you to make your move...so duh do it before someone else comes along