prestige Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 Hello everyone, I was at the club the other night and saw this very attractive man that really blew me away, we were giving each other eye contact and yes I walked over and just gave him my phone number (I never did anything like that in my life) he took the number and called me the same night But the bad part is, he has not called me since, I am always texting him, but he will return all my text messages when I send him one. And when I call his phone he answers sometimes. I finally talked to him and he stated that he just got out of a relationship and that he is foscusing on his business right now, (i understand that). As time passed with the text messages, he is responding with more information, and I was shocked. He text me one day and asked my why do I want to see him so bad, I texted him back and said to tell you the truth I thought you were a handsome guy and I wanted to go out and have a nice time one day and that I am sorry if I came on to you so strong. He replied back and said that he think it is sexy for a woman to come at the men, like the men comes at the women. He also stated that he loves agressive women because they know what they want and that he loves challenges. I saw this man and he turned me on when he told me that he does not have any children and focusing on his career. (and he is attractive)WOW He told me that I am very attractive, beautiful when he first saw me. What should I do, should I stop texting him, (remember he returns my text messages all the time) He said I can call him anytime on the phone, but he does not answer sometimes and he also invited me over one day and I could not go because I just got off of work, I was heated, WHAT SHOULD I DO, I really like this guy, does he show any interest, please help me with this situation,
bluechocolate Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 He also stated that he loves aggressive women because they know what they want and that he loves challenges. Bit of a contradiction there, but whatever. He knows you're interested. Slow down on the contact & let him come to you. .....but he does not answer sometimes and he also invited me over one day and I could not go because I just got off of work, Have you guys been on a date? If not, I suspect that invite to his place was an invite for sex. And remember.... .....he stated that he just got out of a relationship and that he is focusing on his business right now. He may be happy to sit back & let you do all the work because he's not THAT interested, but enjoys being chased by a beautiful woman.
FooD2000 Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 ^ i agree, sounds like he is simply enjoying the attention and you havn't provided enough "catch" for him to go after you. You simply aren't used to a guy who shows interest but then again... shows enough catch for you to be interested in him (we call this "game" ). "I am always texting him." That right there is making you lose. Sit back, let him do the work, be a little sketchy and you'll reel him back.
Author prestige Posted August 16, 2006 Author Posted August 16, 2006 Hello again, so you all say that the best thing for me to do is not to text him anymore and leave him alone completely? So should I just drop his number off this earth or what and left him try to contact me , and what do you mean to be " a little sketchy" I feel like a fool trying to approach someone that I was interested in,
FooD2000 Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 What i mean to be "a little sketchy" is basically if you look at what he did to you. "doesn't answer his phone sometimes," If you didn't noticed... this is one of the things he did to you that makes you wonder, "hmm... why isn't he picking up? Is he out with friends? another girl etc..." Build your dates around your time and when your availble. For example: when you couldn't because you got off work, it makes you less availible and he'll have to try again. now i'm rambling... To get back on track, yea let him call you, when you guys talk... just remember to give him some catch (that's what your lacking right now). Best way to ensure this catch is to find another guy to be interested in, makes you less attached and makes YOU more desireable. If he doesn't call, oh well.. move on.
bluechocolate Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 I feel like a fool trying to approach someone that I was interested in. Why? No need to feel like a fool. You approached him, he knows you're interested, he knows how to contact you. If he's interested he'll do so. Has the only time this guy contacted you was to invite you over to his place? If so, then watch out.
Author prestige Posted August 16, 2006 Author Posted August 16, 2006 Yes that was the only time he asked me to come over, because i was contacting him and one day he said he wanted company , but I had just got off of work that is why I did not go. I guess my best bet is to leave him alone and let him try to contact me
allina Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 I guess my best bet is to leave him alone and let him try to contact me Yes, leaving him alone is the best idea. You don't want to be the girl he met one night that hasn't stopped calling him since. And if he doesn't contact you, oh well, his loss.
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