DrumMajor13 Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 Alright... so my whole situation is this. Three months ago i was broken up with by my boyfriend of almost two years. We're still the best of friends blah blah blah, but i'm still living in the past blah blah blah i'd give anything ot have him back but i know i can't. that said, there are two guys who work near me, i "met" them on my break one day at baskin robbins... couple days later he came into where i work and recognized me and said hi... he's really freaking cute... and so is this other guy... but my questions is... A:) is it smart to get into another relationship while i'm still not 100% healed from the last one... and B:) i've never initiated a date/whatever before... i'm new to this... how the heck do i do that or work up to it with guys i've never really talked to before? Did that even make sense?>
bluechocolate Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 A:) is it smart to get into another relationship while i'm still not 100% healed from the last one... What is not smart is to jump the gun like this. You haven't even dated the guy, never mind having a relationship with him! Given that you feel ready to date someone new, maybe that in itself is a good indication that you are. B:) i've never initiated a date/whatever before... i'm new to this... how the heck do i do that or work up to it with guys i've never really talked to before? Wait until he comes in again & if you have the chance tell him when your shift ends & ask him if he wants to grab a coffee. Simple - though, granted it's easier said than done. What might be easier is to occasionally pop into where he works, I guess on some excuse or another, & see how he reacts. Maybe he'll get the hint that you're interested & ask you out.
Guest Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 A:) is it smart to get into another relationship while i'm still not 100% healed from the last one... What is not smart is to jump the gun like this. You haven't even dated the guy, never mind having a relationship with him! QUOTE] I'm too lazy to sign in... but i meant go out dating in general, not just with this one guy... i'm not *that* naive... thanks for making me look like an idiot tho, i appreciate it.
Green Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 they didnt make you look like an idiot they thought thats what u meant, and if your to afraid to try what was sugested just slip the guy your number on a piece of paper smile and give it to him and just leave. he'll either call you or not.
bluechocolate Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 I'm too lazy to sign in... but i meant go out dating in general, not just with this one guy... i'm not *that* naive... thanks for making me look like an idiot tho, i appreciate it. Wow! Lazy, idiotic & rude to boot! What a charmer. No worries DrumMajor, I shan't waste any more of my time. Have a nice day.
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