kristylyn Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 Well, hey I am 23 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now. He has been asking me out since 10th grade and I was already with someone so I said no for about 4 years. Now, we are happy together, but there is absolutely no sex activity at all. He is very nice and sweet, but every time we are about to have sex he doesn't become ecrect. So, we went to the doctor and he prescribed him Viagra,(did i mention he is only 22), and he took it and left me home alone to watch wrestling. It drove me insane. However, I am also talking to someone that I know through mutual friends that I just started fooling around with. He is nice also, and he pleasures me. I don't know what to do because I feel like my boyfriend is a great guy and I don't want to break up with him because of sex, but I think it is a big part of a relationship. Also, I feel guilty for cheating on him, but I need some damn affection in my life!!!!1 Well, I hope someone can help.....thank you, "confused"
whichwayisup Posted August 16, 2006 Posted August 16, 2006 If the sex now is an issue, and doesn't improve, then it's going to be a bigger issue in the future. Honestly, great guy or not - If it's not happening and you're not happy, TALK to him about it. Maybe it's time to break up. And, don't cheat on him just because you feel like fooling around. ... That's not cool. Do you see yourself marrying him? You're young and if he isn't the one, end it now so you both can heal and move on. Good luck.
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