whattothink Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Hey everyone! I have always received such great (and honest) advice from all of you, so thought I would try it again! I got a phone call last night from someone that needs a little interpretting. I'm on the phone with this guy that is a friend. We're weird friends, don't hang out too often, but have known each other for years. I just graduated from college and during those four years we lost touch until January when he called me out of the blue after hunting my number down. Two weeks ago I moved within 45 minutes of him and last night our conversation was weird. He randomly told me that he was ready to settle down and have babies. A little later (we talked for 45 minutes), I shared with him that I actually surprised myself by liking kids (I'm working with them now). He said that I'd caught the baby bug and again stated that he's ready to settle down. Any thoughts? He knows that when I was younger (14), I was totally crushing on him so I've always wanted to be careful and not scare him off since we haven't been that close over the past several years. If he'd ask, I would totally let him take me out, but I feel like I can't really say anything because of the HUGE crush I had when I was younger. I really think him and I would be great and I'm just in need of some help! Thanks all, you're fabulous!!!
Green Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Just flirt alot and be playful with him when you talk on the phone and he should ask you out... sounds like there could be something there I mean why did he track your number down... hes probably crushing on you
tikigods Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 why not arrange a meeting with him? Go out to dinner or something, evenif nothing happens it still nice to get together with old friends again
Guest Posted August 17, 2006 Posted August 17, 2006 If you've known this guy forever, I wonder if he's just messing with you. Especially since he knows you used to want him so bad! Just trying to point out questions, as a girl, I know it's hard to really know what's up in those situations. Anyone else's opinion is more than welcome to attack that comment!
Author whattothink Posted August 17, 2006 Author Posted August 17, 2006 He's always kind of teased me so that is one reason I wanted advice! I kind of agree with the guest. I would have thought he would have asked me out by now if he was interested. Where are you boys, guys, and men???
Author whattothink Posted August 20, 2006 Author Posted August 20, 2006 Okay, so I got off the phone with him a little while ago and he asked me about how to ask out a chick that he's been friends with for years! Not me, because he told me the story about how she used to date one of his buddies and he didn't want it to get weird! So, I'm guessing he's totally not interested, right?
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