Not Working Out My Way

[krazyz5sk8a]

I have been seeing this woman for a while now she is twice my age. It has been on and off for the most part. and something is telling me that the reason it is back and forth is because i have not told her that i love her and i do. I see the way she looks at me and the way we are when we are togeather is unreal it is like no one eles matters. She tells me that the connection we have will never die. She says things that really make me think she has feelings for me. When a song comes on the radio she gets all smiles and looks at me with that look. and she tellsme she loves the way i kiss and it is that kiss and if you have ever been in love and been around with someone who is in love with you you know that look and you know that kiss. she tells me that the chemistry and the energy and the connection we have she hasint had in a long time. and then she backs off when things get to deep she backs off. and then we dont talk for a while but then in the blink of an eye it is back and she is in my room and we are all cuddeled up next to eachother in our own world. the emotion for me is there and i think i see it in her the sexual side is great we have all the elements we need for a great realtionship should i make that jump or should i just let it go and move on

[Sally00]

I think you should tell her how you feel.

Communication is important.

Also, let her know that you don't like the constant changes she does.

How she'd act scared one minute, and in love the next.

It's confusing you!

It would confuse me too.

 

Try this before you make a final decision of ending it.

[superconductor]

Sally is absolutely right on this one.

 

But...

 

You run the risk of her backing off completely. If she thinks things are getting too heavy when she pours her heart out to you, what do you think her reaction is going to be when you do the same?

 

If you're willing to take that risk - and I personally think you should - then tell her.