Amalphia Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Hello again Everyone! It's been quite a while since I have posted on this site and you folks have all been very helpful to me in the past so I was hoping to get some of that advice again. I am still dating the same guy I was dating in my previous posts. We will hve been together for 3 years come November and I am currently having a new and interesting problem. My Boyfriend has been so much better to me and to "us" then he used to be and I him more and more for that everyday but b/c of the previous issues that we have had and what he has told me about past relationships and what not. I feel like things are going to end with us no matter what I do. I always have the feeling that something is still being hidden from me or I am being lied to about something or that I am just the warm place to be until something warmer comes along. AND THEN it turns out that there is nothing hidden or lied to and that im as warm as its gonna get and he is happy with me and doesnt want anything else. Basically I want to know HOW do i get rid of feeling of distrust and suspicion so that I can just be happy with him and live normally??? I dont want to chase him away and I have heard that if you expect soemthing to happen enough then you will cause that thing to happen. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT.
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