westrex123 Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 I started talking to a girl on a chatroom that we have at my work. I work at a hotel and its a network and it is a chatroom so that staff from all around the country can talk to and ask help etc. I strated to talk to a girl who asked about my Myspace group that i set up for staff to just see what we look like etc and talk out of work. We got eachothers MSN addys and instantly it sparked. Got our numbers and texted and phoned eachother and got to know eachother rather well. We live abotu and hour and abit away from eachother. Then she phoned to say her dad wasn't well. And she was to spend time with him which i TOTALLLY understand. Her friend, in the mean time, started to wind me up saying that theres loads of guys after her - i asked her if this was true - and it was. She told me to look for someone else as she didnt know how long it would be with her dad. I tried. I couldn't. There is somethign about this girl that makes me think she is my soul mate. Anyway we continued to talk. She goes up regually to her mate who owns a Pub - he and her are good mates. He decides to tellher that he likes her. This confuses her. When I was on the phone to her one afternoon she found a note from her ex bf - basically asking her out again. This confused her even more. When i asked her later that evening about meeting up (we havnt met yet - still havnt!) - she said "i dont think its a good idea" We didnt talk for a day or so. Then had a bit of a talk on MSN and phone and decided to just be friends and to not contact as much. She phoned me up 4 days later - first thing she said was "i miss you and i want to meet you" - i was absolutly delighted So we tried to arrange a day that we had free. I asked if i could pop up tonight - she said "im going for a drink with my ex" .... i said ok. Thing is i texted her this morning, this afternoon and this eveing and NO reply. I phoned and a guy answered - she was in the loo. I phoned later and she answered - she said she would phone me back. 40minutes later and no phonecall so i texted her asking if she got back ok. She sent the following text: "Some things have happened today. so i cant realy talk at the mo. ill talk to you soon". My head is absolutly mashed. I just dont know what to think. What do i Do? Ive told her that she needs to contact me whenever and that it just doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me. Im very confused. VERY confused indeed. I love her. Ive not met her in person but i KNOW shes the one for me. I just know it. I justdon't know what to do.
superconductor Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Whoah, slow down there, my friend. First of all, you don't know this woman at all. You only know the persona she presents while talking online, and a little bit on the phone. But for the sake of argument, let's say that she's telling the truth; that her dad is ill and all the rest. Right now, with the impending loss of her father, she's likely very scared, vulnerable and not in a good position to be making choices about a relationship. My suggestion - even though you didn't ask, I'm going to lay it on you anyway - is to contact her once more and let her know that you're thinking about her and hope she's ok, basic "friend" stuff. Once her life gets a little more settled, then you two should meet. Leave it at that. The reason for this is to be the most hassle-free part of her life. No demands on her time or attention right now, because she's got enough on her plate. Capice?
westernxer Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 So we tried to arrange a day that we had free. I asked if i could pop up tonight - she said "im going for a drink with my ex" .... Sounds like she already found her soul mate.
burning 4 revenge Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Sounds like she already found her soul mate.:lmao:
Touche Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 She might be your soulmate and not know it. Or was that twin soul? I forget now...twin flame? Someone help me!
burning 4 revenge Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 She might be your soulmate and not know it. Or was that twin soul? I forget now...twin flame? Someone help me!Yeah, I hate it when you're made from the same cosmic energy source as some extremely physically attractive person and they just don't seem to realize it.
Touche Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Yeah, I hate it when you're made from the same cosmic energy source as some extremely physically attractive person and they just don't seem to realize it. I can't stop laughing! Yeah, don't you hate when that happens? It's a real bummer!
tinktronik Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Yeah, I hate it when you're made from the same cosmic energy source as some extremely physically attractive person and they just don't seem to realize it. :lmao: Again with the giggles , I actually fell out of my chair for that one . My last count , I was up to at least 5 twin flame souls , lucky me Im willing to share more than one cosmic energy source. I can tell they are my soul mates when I put my lighter up and look through it , if it turns blue on the edges , ahh I've found another one . This tends to happen a lot at concerts.
Touche Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 You guys are too much! Very funny Tink! So it's twin flame, huh? I wasn't sure. I was wondering why they called it twin FLAME? So it's 'cause of the lighter thing you spoke of. Hmmm very interesting. I'll have to go hold my lighter up in front of H's face..hold on be right back. OH NO! Yes there was a blue edge but it was only on the bottom half of the flame. What the heck is that? Does that mean he's only partially my twin flame? Is that even possible? Gosh, this really concerns me. I've wondered lately with our recent bickering, whether he really was my full twin flame and now it's become clear to me. He's not. How can I make him my full twin flame? How can I see the full blue edge? PLEASE, someone help me see the light!
tinktronik Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 You guys are too much! Very funny Tink! So it's twin flame, huh? I wasn't sure. I was wondering why they called it twin FLAME? So it's 'cause of the lighter thing you spoke of. Hmmm very interesting. I'll have to go hold my lighter up in front of H's face..hold on be right back. OH NO! Yes there was a blue edge but it was only on the bottom half of the flame. What the heck is that? Does that mean he's only partially my twin flame? Is that even possible? Gosh, this really concerns me. I've wondered lately with our recent bickering, whether he really was my full twin flame and now it's become clear to me. He's not. How can I make him my full twin flame? How can I see the full blue edge? PLEASE, someone help me see the light!You have to flip the switch to get the light on T , it'll be okay . Hmm , blue only on the bottom , thats bad news .It means the moving has damaged his soul . You'll have to get iguana fins a babys hair and eye of newt to rectify the situation.
Touche Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 You have to flip the switch to get the light on T , it'll be okay . Hmm , blue only on the bottom , thats bad news .It means the moving has damaged his soul . You'll have to get iguana fins a babys hair and eye of newt to rectify the situation. Oh wow, I flipped the switch on..wow, what a difference! But I still only get a partial blue light. GRRR!!! I knew it! It's the move. I bet before all this I would have seen the full blue edge. Ok, so I only need three items to make him my full twin flame again. Wonder if I can procure said items on EBAY?
Hitman10000 Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chump
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