whymenow Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 Okay, bear with me on this. What I'm about to say is going to make a lot of you flame all over but this is from the heart... There are only two or three things in life I'm sure about and the thing I am absolutlely the most sure about is that about a year ago I fell in love with the person I was meant to be with. Yeah I know, everyone feels that way when they are in love but I've been around and I know the difference. This time it was real. We both knew it and as hard as we tried to stay best of friends, we just coudn't. So we became best of lovers. It was like we were two high school sweethearts reunited after twenty years. It was the happiest time of both of our lives. And now the dark side... We are both married. After several weeks apart (due to a work separation), she became distant and ice cold. Oh by the way, she was working with an ex-lover during this separation. You can see where this is going. That's right, how can someone go from being totally in love to being ice cold in a matter of a couple of weeks unless the feelings for one love are replaced by those of another. When she dumped the ex lover she was working with, she used the excuse that she wanted to reconcile with her husband. Guess what? That is just what she told me. Hmmm... I have little doubt that she has rekindled her realationship with this other guy. I know, we're all losers and we deserve each other. This is the last thing I want or need im my life but in the depth of my soul I know that this lady and I were put here for each other. So go ahead, flame away, it just feels a little better to tell someone...
P1xie Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 I don't think anyone here is going to flame you. What I have never understood though...if you are both married and cheating. Why would you think she wouldn't leave you or have a fling with someone else when she's already done it to her husband?
westernxer Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 ...in the depth of my soul I know that this lady and I were put here for each other. We all make the same mistake ...another miscellaneous heartbreak.
fatty Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Well said, That is exactly what I never understoof about people who fall in love with thier mistreses. What make's you so certain they wont do that to you? Like you said it was almost as if you guys were highschool sweet hearts. We all know how that goes, it is filled with puppy love and 100% hormone charged lust.
missdeathwish Posted August 20, 2006 Posted August 20, 2006 Dude, I'm sorry to hear about it. While it's wrong to cheat (I don't blame the disollution of one relationship on "the other wo/man", but you still should break up with your partner before taking on another), it doesn't make it any less painful to be dumped. I can't tell you what to do, except work on the relationship that you do have (with your wife). If it isn't broken, fix it. If you can't fix it, end it. Painful, but not as painful (for you or her) as trying to pretend nothing is wrong.
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