Confuzzled85 Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 Hello, I was wondering if any of you, had a holiday booked with someone and you then broke up before the holiday? and what did you do? I have 2 holidays booked with my Ex Ive already been on one, and we had a really nice time, I do not regret going, I have another holiday booked in 2 weeks time, and I want to go, I guess Im just worried about stupid things... like when we are together on holiday things as mates are fine, but Im worried ill get upset when I have to leave etc and I guess im worried that I am prolonging my pain ? any ideas
MsArtful Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 Go on the holiday by yourself, and have a fun time. But if that's what he's planning to do, perhaps you could get some kind of transfer to a different destination, because going on a holiday with each other, when you've broken up, and don't want to get back together again, is a bad idea. It could just lead to the prolonging of a bad relationship.
Author Confuzzled85 Posted August 14, 2006 Author Posted August 14, 2006 the thing is we cant the holiday is 2 weeks away and they have only offered us a 10% back which is nothing! The thing is we still do want to be friends, we know its going to be hard but we are going to work at it. we have been seeing each other small amounts throughout the week to get used to just being mates, and its working okey. I kind of just want closure on the matter, he has said that he is too young for a serious relationship although we were together 3 years and he wants his freedom, he still says that if we would have met now, we probably would have been together forever, which is quite hurtful as im alwyas thinking what if, but I have decided I just have to get on with things, and what will be will be.
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