Guest Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 Ok i have a crush on this guy.I have only talked to him a couple of times but it was in a group situtation. So i have never really talked to him one on one. Anyways i am to shy to go up to him face to face and tell him i like him or to call him and tell him. So what i want to know is would it really be that bad if i wrote him a letter telling him how i feel, I know its not the most mature thing to do but if he knew that it was because i was to shy to approach him. I really need to get out how i feel even if it doesnt lead anywhere i just need to get it off my chest before it drives me crazy. I just want opinions on this option.
whichwayisup Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 I don't think you should pour your heart out in a letter, it might freak him out, but maybe drop him a note telling him that you would like it if you two could see a movie together. That way, after the movie, there's your lead in to talk about something which will lead conversation into other area's and you'll feel abit more comfortable.
magichands Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 Anyways i am to shy to go up to him face to face and tell him i like him or to call him and tell him. I would look on this as an opportunity to face your fears head on. Go for it - you will be proud of yourself for having the courage. I agree with whichwayisup's note of caution, though - wearing your heart on your sleeve is a dangerous practice. Take a deep breath, and just do it. You can!
the_alchemyst Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 If I were you, I would try to go out with him one on one first, just to get a feel for things. It might be easier for you to tell him once you've actually been able to be around him by yourself.
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