Cherokee21 Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 What do you do when you've fallen for your booty call....who says he has fallen for you? ...who tells his friends that he is completely sprung....as we were getting along without getting too emotional about things. We talked for hours about our situations, his baby mama drama and my abusive ex. But we kept everything low key and had a way in which understood each other without having to explain, and we had just a very slight attachemtn even though we were having sex every time we saw each other? And what do you do when he tells you he thinks you're beautiful, and he wants to show you that you deserve a great guy... that he is determined to.... as he knows you could bounce back to your ex at any given time, and even though he still knows you have contact with your ex, he lets his guard down? I got drunk and regret some things that I said to my booty call one night. He was drunk and he told me that he had fallen for me. On this night I had overheard his friends talking about how he "broke the toliet" with a girl a few nights before in the upstairs bathroom. And it hurt so much, because I trusted him when he said "only you". I casually brought it up, and I could tell that he felt pretty guilty. But later on as I drank harder, the tears spilled due to drama with the ex and all my emotions.... and I told him that I loved him, but that I really was just using him to get back at my ex. I told him that I knew he was a player, and that if he really cared about me he wouldn't have wanted me as a booty call, but as a friend. He seemed really hurt by this. But I was so bitter and cruel that night. I tried to apologize, but he didn't want to hear it. He had just gotten hurt by a girl in his past relationship. So he moved on, used another girl for a booty call and ditched her....then actually got a gf...a very boring one I guess from what people tell me.... Also perhaps just a girl to use to show his babys mama that he could get someone too, since she has a new boyfriend and that has shaken him up, PLUS I got back with my ex. But I feel terrible about what I said that night... I truly think he was a nice guy and I just overreacted. I miss him so much. What can I say to him now? Did I ruin it for good? Did he really even care about me if he is ignoring me now, or did I just scare him off?
SoleMate Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Did I ruin it for good? I hope so. He sounds like a user. Please consider raising your standards, and don't get involved in "booty calls" anymore.
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