Confusedt33n Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Well im not entirly smart in the topic of dating so please dont make fun of anything that might be amuse you in this topic. Thanks. Well i was hanging out with friends couple weeks ago on vacation, and i met this girl. Im in general a shy guy, so i dont talk very often when i first meet people. Once when my friends were gone i felt a lot more comforatable and just talked to her, bringing up things to talk about just so we could become friends. At this stage i started feeling an attracting towards her, she is 17 so she is 2 years older than me, and also very attractive so i of corse keep thinking that nothing will ever happen. The next night though we drank with everyone and me and he talk alone and she ends up telling me that she thinks im hot. Haha i guess you can say self esteem boost for me, since i usualy think to little of myself (look wise) it was a suprise. Later that night we went walking and my friend left to go to bed and we stayed up, well since i had a bit to drink i wasnt feeling shy and she was more open(she wasnt overly drunk) so i made thefirst move and it worked out good, after that we ended up making out for a long time, then doing some other things im not going to say here but you get the point. The next day we had to leave and i picked up her email so i can keep in touch with her. Now i felt guilty because i wasnt sure how drunk she was, and i didnt wana take advantage so on msn 2 days after that i finaly brought it up and she said she had fun and she remembers, so i feel a lot better. She said the age thing doesnt matter to her, so im taking that as a hint she would wana go out with me somtime if i ask her. Haha but pathetic me has lack of confidence and doesnt know when i should ask her to do somthing. I know this is pointless and i didnt need to say all of that above but i just dont feel comfortable talking to friends about it atm. Do you guys think i should suck it up and just ask her out, and see how the date goes. I have been thinking about her constantly almost and its making me feel sick since i havent asked her out yet. I barely know her so i dont know why i think about her so much, but i guess its because shes the person who i have done the most with and accualy had fun and felt a connection... im still iffy about asker her out for some reason, not scared or anything just i have such bad self confidence when it comes to the opposite sex its realy bad.And plus her being 17 makes me a bit more nervous in ways. Im pathetic i know... this is pointless but i just had to say it all somehwere. Sorry for waisting yout guys time.
Pink Amulet Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 You can keep talking to her on msn and build a comfortable relationship, making the face-to-face meeting not so difficult for you. The only problem with this procrastination is this may lead her to think you are not interested in her. Is there anything you are particularly good at? For example, if you are a great ice skater, take her to an ice rink. You need to find the source of your confidence, and then have her witness you in your element.
Author Confusedt33n Posted August 12, 2006 Author Posted August 12, 2006 Well, i can play drums alright now, but not an interesting date subject... but yeah your right i should find somthing that would work to my advantage, if she wants to do it to that is. Im thinking somthing like a movie though, ill ask her what she wants to do when i do ask i guess. Haha man im lame, i just hope everything works out alright and doesnt turn into a disaster, but i guess thats life.
Author Confusedt33n Posted August 12, 2006 Author Posted August 12, 2006 haha yeah thats what i think to, i mean we prob wouldnt be watching the movie the whole time if things work out, but i mean there isnt a whole lot of things to do when im 15 and shes 17, since i cant drive yet:( any ideas?
Pink Amulet Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Take her to a waterslide park, or on a picnic. Rent some bikes, at a park. Or a paddle boat on a lake!
Author Confusedt33n Posted August 12, 2006 Author Posted August 12, 2006 Thanks for the input. I was thinking about doing somthing outside, mabey going biking then just sitting down and relaxing or somthing, since she bikes i dont think she would mind. Ill talk to her about it when i do ask, in the mean time ill think things through. All i know is that i would be stupid not to ask her out, I mean i might as well just do it and give it a go. No matter how unconffident i am with oposite sex now i might as well get over it now instead of being like this through out highschool. Haha well thanks for the input once again, apreciate it.
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