dominsane Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Ok, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me a month ago... I think I might be pregnant. I took two pregnancy tests today, one was negative and the other was positive... I'm calling my doctor tomorrow to make an appointment to take another final pregnancy test. I've been talking to my ex regularly online... Should I tell him that I think I might be pregnant? Or should I wait for the results?
tine_23 Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Hey! wait for the results...why scare him before you know the truth...it might scare him away...
Violet87 Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 I think it's better that you wait for the final results as well, so you can be completely sure before you tell him.
magichands Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 I'm calling my doctor tomorrow to make an appointment to take another final pregnancy test. Good luck. Does anyone else know about this? (Do you have anyone for support?)
Author dominsane Posted August 12, 2006 Author Posted August 12, 2006 Good luck. Does anyone else know about this? (Do you have anyone for support?) No, I haven't told anyone about it. I just don't think it would have been a good idea if anyone else knew... But thanks, you guys, I guess I'll be waiting for the final results...
Pink Amulet Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 This happened to me recently. If you are pregnant, tell him. This is a good enough reason to break the NC rule
silentcharon Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 This also happened too. This was right after the break up- I have never, ever, in our 7 year relationship had a pregnancy scare like that. I took a home kit when I missed my period, and it was positive. I totally freaked out because first of all, I don't want kids, and it isn't something I wanted, and second of all, the man who got me pregnant isn't with me anymore. First mistake. I told him about it- he FLIPPED out. He doesn't want kids either- and never in our 7 year relationship we have ever discussed about having kids, we share the same values. We both wouldn't mind having kids, adopted or not, some day, it isn't right now. He accused me of lying about the test, I told him that I saved the dip stick thing if he wanted to look at it. He looked at it for a long time, and said, "Ok, I want you to see a doctor and get re tested anyway," Which wasn't a problem for me, because I would have to go anyway, regardless of what he would say. So I went to the doctor, and he actually showed up- He called in sick at work to actually show up, even after he told me how he's been working so much because he needs the money. Anyway. The doctor told me the test turned out negative, much to my relief. Don't do what I did. All this could have been avoided had I gone to see my doctor before telling my ex.
Pink Amulet Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 But you were with him at the time Silentcharon? Your post is a bit ambiguous.
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