Bella418 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 3 1/2 yrs ago I became involved with a married man. He was upfront and told me that he wanted to wait until his girls were settled and that would be 5 years. I am trying to be patient and supportive but it is wearing thin. I know, I know everyone says it. It is about time he @#%@# or gets off the pot. The youngest is just going into 2nd yr. I find I am the one who talks about the future and he just agrees. He has met my family and makes the effort to be with me at all important functions. I guess what I am asking is after all is said and done am I just spinning my wheels and should I take off the rose coloured glasses and ask him to spell out his intentions. We have planned or at least I have asked if we should plan to go away together in Jan 2008 and he has said go ahead and book the trip. Plan it for any time. I will answer any questions anyone wants to ask and am open to listening to all replies. By the way we are not spring chickens both of us are in our early 50's.
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