_Girl_ Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 Hello. Please help me. Have this ever happened to anyone? I have met my perfect guy recently and I am sure he is interested in me. The problem is he doesn't know what to do with me because he has never dated before eventhough he's over 30 and very successful. I know this sounds strange but there are really some good quality guys who have never dated. I want to get married with him but he's moving so slow. What should I do? Would a guy marry the first girl he ever dated? Or am I just wasting my time giving him free dating tutorials here? Thank you for any suggestions.
bluechocolate Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 How can you know this guy is 'perfect' if you've just recently met? Especially given that he "doesn't know what to do with you"? The weirdest thing to me is that you've decided that you want to marry him.
dgiirl Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I just learned the other day that one of my friend's was her husband's first girlfriend. They've been happily married for the last 6 years If you like the guy, and the guy treats you well, give him a chance.
Tony T Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 If he doesn't know what to do, teach him. But don't go so fast in thinking he's the perfect guy for you. Date him a year or two before deciding whether or not you want to marry him. He may be a great guy but there are some compelling reasons, besides the fact that he may be very busy and successful, why he has not dated. I promise you, even the President of the United States can make time for a blow job in the Oval Office. Something just ain't right! Oh, yes, and if you give him dating tutorials and he gets real good at it...don't you think he's going to want to see what else is out there? You could create a monster! Be very careful about being so nice to a guy like this until you really get to the core of his issues....and that takes time, even for a professional.
Hitman10000 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 A guy who has never ever dated or claimed to have not dated when he's 30 is not perfect. Experienced women will scream RED FLAGS, cause if he was truly perfect he'd probably lay at least 5-10 women by now. I might marry the first girl, after I dump her and date/banged 3-5 other girls. Then I'd go back to first girl and go geez! I made a mistake but I'm glad I test drove other cars before making the grand decision..here's the ring and let's have sex every single day. (I'm being honest.)
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