LuvHurts43 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 My relationship of eight years is finally over. My ex and I were planning on getting married, and starting a family just two weeks ago. Last Friday we got into a fight, and from then on we only spoke a few times since, until we got into a hugh argument the other day. I know this time it is the end of us. I can't picture myself being without him. I build my life and future around him. I"m so heart-broken and disappointed right now that I made an appointment with my physician to get on anti-depressants. Right now I have no choice but to move on... but I'm not ready. I am in love with him. He's the only man that I've been with. I don't know what to do. I don't want to go out with my friends, because I will only be miserable. Everywhere that I go reminds me of the time... It feels like I will never get over this. What hurts the most is I have surgery next week, and he is not going to be there for me. Sorry, if this doesn't make any sense...
SUMMER 1969 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I know what you are going through, a few years ago I was with a man for 7 years, we were engaged to be married.. After we set the wedding date he told me that he loves me, but was not in love with me anymore.. I as well as you built my world around his... It was really hard getting over him, but I did.. What helped me was the old saying " if it was meant to be it will come back for you " Sometimes love is just not enough.. My ex and I always fought it was so unhealthy, I know this now, but at the time I did not see it that way.. I know you love and care for him, but if you guys are fighting all of the time that is not good for either of you..
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