loveinlife Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 My ex called me this morning at 6:50am to be exact. I didn't pick up cause didn't know what she wanted. She knows that I still have feelings for although she has a bf(what she told me last week). So i called her back today and at 11:00am, but she didn't pick up or called me since, is she trying to play mind games with bc i still love her??
johnnytable Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 It takes two people to play games and right now you are right on the court with her. She hit you the ball and you returned it to her. Stop messing around and ignore these phone calls. She has a bf and has no right to be talking to you. You have no obligation to talk to her.
Author loveinlife Posted August 11, 2006 Author Posted August 11, 2006 Good analogy johnnytable. Thanx
Mollyanna Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 maybe she dialed your number by accident? Did she leave a message? Don't call her!
Author loveinlife Posted August 11, 2006 Author Posted August 11, 2006 It was her cell phone. Might have called the wrong number. She didn't leave a message either. *confused* I guess if she really wanted to talk she will probably call again. So far no signs of that.
bendit Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 She is messing with your brain chemistry. Listen to Johnny Table. He has been exactly where you are. Don't let her mess with your mental health. She doesn't have any empathy for you. You need to "man up", take charge, and put this relationship in the "ancient history" category. NO FRIENDS with this person. She is going to continue to mess with you if you don't take concrete steps to keep her from doing it. regards ps: I would read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Glover.
Author loveinlife Posted August 15, 2006 Author Posted August 15, 2006 She is trying to mess with my brain chemistry, besides her calling me in the morning. I just saw her on aim, I didn't talk to her until she imed me. She said "Sam?". She should know my aim screen-name. I shouldn't have responded, but I just wanted to be nice, so I said "Hey, yep its me." Guess what, she just signed off after that. F**k that s**t. That is so stupid and immature of her. Kinda just moved me to back a few pages after trying to get on the go with NC. I was getting stronger and now this BS. Any comments?
2020vision Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Okay, I have dealt with someone very similiar. My ex would do the same thing to me, he would throw me a bone and I would take the bait. Then, he would drop off the face of the earth. It does not do anything good for your ego. She is playing psychological warfare with you and you have the power to stop it. Don't become part of her mind games one more time! You need to listen to everyone's advice here. Stop responding to her contact. You can do it.
Ariadne Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Hi, is she trying to play mind games with bc i still love her?? No, nobody cares to play "mind games," that's more from a movie script. It's easier to pick up the phone and say hi. Ariadne
happiness Posted August 15, 2006 Posted August 15, 2006 Just pick up the phone and talk to her. DOnt waste your time guessing and second guessing why she called. its not worth it. U love her but by ignoring calls and such u may just be messing the situation unnecesarily. Before u call just compose urself and dont expect a lot from the talk and from her.
Author loveinlife Posted August 15, 2006 Author Posted August 15, 2006 Yes, that is true. I should pick the phone next time. But when I called her back she never picked up or called me. That is what I don't get. Isn't reasonable to not pick up the phone 6:50 in the morning. And whats her points to act like she doesn't know me on aim, i don't get her. *confused*
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