Guest Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 What do you think of a woman being a stripper? I mean, I started to date a man from the club I work at and we ended up dating for a while... Well, I fell hard for him and he did not give a crap about me.. So that is that, we are done.. My question is, do you think it will be hard for me to find a good guy in the line of work I am in? I am not a dirty girl, I go to work, make my money and go home.. I do not dress like a stripper outside of work, I own my own house, have a new car, I do not do any kind of drugs.. Any advise would be great
bluechocolate Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 My question is, do you think it will be hard for me to find a good guy in the line of work I am in? Yes, but not impossible.
Returning Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 Apart from the general attributes of attraction etc, he would have to be comfortable with himself and his own sexuality. I guess it's just as difficult for you to find a good person of the opposite sex as it is for others. Some males are affected by jealousy and the like so your line of work could have an impact on his self confidence if you didn't have a mutual respect and a strong bond. Trust is the cornerstone of all relationships in it's various aspects. A person in your profession may be a narcissist magnet so getting to know a person over time before getting in to deep may be wise. A persons line of work is not an indication of their moral character. A good man would be able to see past any stigmas attached to your job and cherish the person you are. Good Luck in your Life and never lose sight of yourself
SUMMER 1969 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I know the money must be pretty good, and it sounds like you know what you are doing.. I think a lot of men will have a problem dating someone that is a stripper, but I would just say to not date any of the customers there.. You will not find love in a strip club.. Men do not want there girl to be taking there close off for different men, I would think there are a few men that will not mind it, but most of them will..
burning 4 revenge Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I dated a stripper for three months in the year two-thousand and one. She broke my nose with a sucker punch on Valentines Day and I haven't dated one since.
Ariadne Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 Hi, My question is, do you think it will be hard for me to find a good guy in the line of work I am in? It will be hard to find a good guy no matter what line of work you are in, unfortunately. Love is "that" hard. Ariadne
Asafan Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I dated a stripper for three months in the year two-thousand and one. She broke my nose with a sucker punch on Valentines Day and I haven't dated one since. Wow! That sucks. As to the OP. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, though I would not date anyone you meet in the club. I have been to strip clubs and most of the times the guys are drunk, horny, and already have someone. That just seems like a receipe for disaster. That said, if I met a girl and she was doing "all the right things in her life" e.g, was responsible, kind, considerate, had family ties, etc. and later found out she was a stripper, I would probably keep dating her if things were going well and see how the relationship developed. I wouldn't just dump her out of hand.
norajane Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 If you are looking for a man who is also responsible, drug-free, etc., you may find it harder to date as his values aren't likely to allow him to accept your job. Even if he were to appreciate you for who you are, his views of what your job entails (getting naked or nearly so with many men for money) will always be in conflict with the kind of woman he wants to be with.
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