aspoiled Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I had been dating this guy for about a year and a half, I broke up with him last week because he drives for a trucking co. and is gone all the time. He was only home 34 hours a wk. When he was here on the weekends he was always tired or a little grumpy which there for made me grumpy. I am tired of dealing with things on my own I am an independant person but I do require a certain amount of love and attention. He hates his job and is always griping about it and I got really tired of him always talking about it on the phone he seemed to care about the things that were going on here but then again I felt like he did not. He never helped me with anything other than his clothes no bills I paid all the bills and would get upset and not say anything just let it build up until My daughter got sick I changed jobs and was under so much stress I decided if I was going to have to do everything by my self then I would just be by myself. I have a really high sex drive and which from the start he has never really had a high sex drive and when we had sex only 2 min. I don't get it why do I feel so sad when I know how unhappy I was.
AriaIncognito Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 Sounds to me like you made the right decision for yourself. You know what you need in a partner. If he wasn't meeting those needs, you need to move on to someone who might. It's only natural to be sad, even when you're the one who did it. However, I'm sure the pain will lessen in a few days/weeks... Jennifer
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