MacGyver Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 Hi Guys/Girls. My GF recently broke up with me about 1 and 1/2 months ago. Last week she sent me a text saying that we need to organise a day to get our stuff although she was only free friday night because apparently she has been really busy. I didnt reply because i didnt want to. I wanted to make the day to pick up my things a day when i can drive as currently i have no licence and i dont want her to bring me home. I'm sure you understand that. Anyways, come Friday morning i was on my way to work and guess who rings. I answer because the number was private but i knew it was her. There was some opening small talk, then she asked if we were good for tonight. Which i replied "No not tonight i cant". Then she asked why i hadnt replied to her sms and i just said "Ive been really busy". She just replied with a "yeah ok" but in a tone of voice that really suggested "Yeah what ever!". So then i told her i would ring her back when we could get our things and we hung up. Now i know i was a little harsh to her but the way i feel right now is complete resentment towards her. I basically acted like i didnt have time to talk to her. Now can someone tell me please that ive done the correct thing? I believe i have because i want to move on, but then knowing her after that phone call getting my stuff back is going to be a little harder because shes the type that will now use what just happened and throw it back in my face and do the same to me. Thoughts?
johnnytable Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 She can't throw it in her face once you are rid of her. Get her stuff back to her ASAP and get on with your life.
Confuzzled85 Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 I think you have done the right thing, I personally am tooo weak, but I think you have it will show her that you have moved/ are moving on and do not break down ever time she calls you. Well done X
MrPot Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 You did the right thing! Well, that's what you asked for...
HopefulOne Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 You did the right thing absolutely..... I agree mail her stuff to her... Good luck to you....
Ariadne Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Hey, I don't know what you did but. Now can someone tell me please that ive done the correct thing? I'd say yes. Ariadne
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