pricillia Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 I have been dating my boyfriend since late March. Lately he has been acting different. Now this has been sudden. He went away for two weeks and when he got back he was so excited to see me and it was great. However he is a jealous man and he gets jealous for no reason... The last time I saw him he I asked him what was bothering him as I knew that something was. He said that he could not tell me and that they were family related issues, I told him that is what I am here for he said that he could not tell me. This is so frustrating. I asked him if it had anything to do with me and he said no that it does not. He did tell me that he has had "Man problems" I was not sure what that meant until I pulled it out of him. He said that he can not afford to take me out. I really don't care about that... I know that he is not happy but I don't want to be a fool either... Is it time to move on?
superconductor Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 DON'T DON'T DON'T EVER ask a man what the problem is. If he wants you to know, he'll tell you.
Green Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 Oh Geez you asked a man what his problem is? I really hope this is a joke or it may already be to late! ...
Author pricillia Posted August 10, 2006 Author Posted August 10, 2006 no guys just asked what is bothering him...
Author pricillia Posted August 10, 2006 Author Posted August 10, 2006 Oh Geez you asked a man what his problem is? I really hope this is a joke or it may already be to late! ... and no this is not a joke at all. I think that it is ok to say Is everything ok... Did I mention that he is jealous and he is constantly getting mad at me for absolutely nothing... If I talk to this one guy or if I am in the same room with him and even if I do not say anything he brings it up... He just did it again a little while ago... I am not even attracted to this man(the one he gets jealous over) in the least... he kind of turns me off even... I am just nice like I am to everyone else. The fact that he is always bringing it up no matter what I say is troublesome. So for me to ask one simple question... I don't hound him about it at all!
rina_r Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 DON'T DON'T DON'T EVER ask a man what the problem is.. Dont ask this, dont ask that..what about "communication is the key"? If he does not want to be asked, he should not be tripping.
norajane Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 Did I mention that he is jealous and he is constantly getting mad at me for absolutely nothing... If I talk to this one guy or if I am in the same room with him and even if I do not say anything he brings it up... He just did it again a little while ago... I am not even attracted to this man(the one he gets jealous over) in the least... he kind of turns me off even... I am just nice like I am to everyone else. The fact that he is always bringing it up no matter what I say is troublesome. So for me to ask one simple question... I don't hound him about it at all! I think he has every right to be jealous. He just doesn't realize it's about the wrong guy, based on what you posted in mid-July in your Is it possible to love two people thread. Maybe he sensed your attention was divided, but didn't know that it was with a different man: Does anyone believe that you can Love more than one person at the same time. I up until recently have been the OW to a co-worker and I do have real feelings of love and tenderness for him, I do not think that we will be together again as it can not go anywhere. I have been seeing this new man and I feel that I love him to, he makes me laugh, fills my heart with love and is passionite as well I guess that I have to move on but I will never forget what I had with MM and towards the end he changed his tune with me and we opened up to eachother... anyway does anyone out there understand how I feel?
Author pricillia Posted August 11, 2006 Author Posted August 11, 2006 I think he has every right to be jealous. He just doesn't realize it's about the wrong guy, based on what you posted in mid-July in your Is it possible to love two people thread. Maybe he sensed your attention was divided, but didn't know that it was with a different man: norajane... I could see how this could be true. I give him my undivided attention but maybe men have intuition as well. This is the kind of person that I would do anything for... within reason of course. I could see myself with him long term, and like it! I just wish that he would get over the jealousy thing. I am not sure. We will see. I just shared some good news with him and he said that he was praying for me so I thought that what he said was really sweet. We will see thanks for remembering my other post... and for the honesty
Author pricillia Posted August 11, 2006 Author Posted August 11, 2006 Dont ask this, dont ask that..what about "communication is the key"? If he does not want to be asked, he should not be tripping. Thanks Rina... it was out of concern that I asked because he has not been himself and he did express that to me... Damed if you do ... well you know the rest
Green Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 How come if your not attracted to that one guy you still talk to him and make your boyfriend jealous…
Sand&Water Posted August 11, 2006 Posted August 11, 2006 DON'T DON'T DON'T EVER ask a man what the problem is. If he wants you to know, he'll tell you. Oh my! I think you might be right, SC.
Author pricillia Posted August 12, 2006 Author Posted August 12, 2006 How come if your not attracted to that one guy you still talk to him and make your boyfriend jealous… because as I see it people can talk to each other. Like Hi how are you how are you doing type of thing. When I have talked to the other guy It has been general conversation. I can not go around not talking to people...it is not who I am. Let me make it clear that I don't flirt ec
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