Second chance after divorce?

[waitingforlove]

I just wonder if it's harder for people to get back together after a divorce than if they were just bf/gf? If so, why? Anybody got remarried to the same person after getting divorced from them previously?

[littlekitty]

Not personally, but I have heard of plenty of cases where it happens.

 

Be nice to see if there is anyone here who's had real life experience of this?

[dgiirl]

Sadly, I dont think you're going to see too many happy stories in this forum, simply because the happy married people dont usually hang around in divorce and separation forums

 

I dont know the statistics, but I dont see why it would be any less of a chance than bf/gf. In fact, if you share kids, it might be even higher. You need to remain in contact, and depending on how you two divorce, if you remain civil with each other, and keep the friendship and respect alive, then maybe over time, you two would come back to one another. Dont give up hope! No matter what happens, even if the two of you dont get back together, life can still be good again. You can still find someone to share your life with. Focus on yourself, and your contribution to the world, to your family and friends (make new friends if you dont have any), and start living again. There's more to life than just having a romantic partner.

[Gunny376]

Who's beem married (and divorced) to the same woman ~ four times!

 

Thing is that in Alabama you can't marry the same person more than three ~ (who would have ever thought they needed such a law?) the fourth time they had to drive to Georigia. About a two hour trip from here.

 

Don't you want to know, during that two hour road trip ~ what we're they thinking?!

[Lor]

Friends of mine did that; got married, got divorced, got back together, separated again, and then got back together and married again.

 

...biggest thing is that they both did a lot of growing up in between.