Guest Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 I know this question has been asked before, but I'm fairly new so hopefully someone can help me to understand. I was in a relationship that ended 6 months ago. She broke it off with me. Like a fool, I did try to get back with her a few months after it happened. She was resolute with her decision. I have, of course, accepted this and Iam in the process of moving on without her. The pain is gone for the most part but I do still miss her. She has not contacted me one time since the breakup. She has always responded to my contacts but never initiated. I can understand that she has "moved on" but I just cannot understand why she has not contacted me one time just to see how I'm doing. She has said that she is not dating someone else and I am trying my best to believe her words. I truly believe that she is a good person. But it's as if she really does not care in the least. As if our relationship meant NOTHING. I'm trying not to be a cold-hearted person or bitter from this. But I must admit that I am finding this to be difficult. I was very good to her. I just don't understand. (I just realized I didn't mention the reason for the breakup - Her reasons for the breakup were essentially timing. She has two children, one 6 and one 11. And she was not ready for the type of relationship that we had.) I know that nobody can step into her mind and answer for her. But maybe someone can shed some light as to why she has seemingly shut me out forever. Just one phone call or email from her would at least change my perspective of her. And yet nothing.
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