belliebutton Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I don't know where to start, so I am just going to jump right in. I have been a Happily divorced single mom of 2 beautiful kids for 9 years. My kids have never met (that they know of ) anyone I have every dated or "played" with because I didn't want to be a part of their lives. The only relationship that I have had ended on Easter Sunday in a very devestating way. I did not realize that I could hurt that bad. So here I am licking my wounds chatting with my neighbor (apartment complex) about how much men suck when this vision walks by and I stop speaking in mid sentence. I know that it sounds typical but everyone I know that has ever seen this man has experienced the exact same reaction. I could do nothing but stare. Over the next couple of months this staring thing has become mutual. I of course recruited my neighbor to find out the scoop. And dang my luck he is married. Now in two months I have seen him with kids, brothers, never wife. I have no idea what she looks like and they have to walk by my door to get back and forth to the apartment. One day (yes here it comes) I am walking from my car and he stops and asks me my name nothing to write home about except I jump on it with both feet. the next morning I leave an unsigned note on his truck inviting him to meet my girlfriend and I for happy hour. He does not show, oh well. The next morning I am sitting on my porch having coffee and reading a new juicy book and here he comes. He lets me know that he does not get off work until 6:30 and did not make it there until 7. We had already gone. He wants to hook up that evening if possible. Of course, it is right? Well he meets me at the local club that everybody hangs out at and it is all over from the first kiss. I felt like I was home. We had sex the first night, and it was the best. I figured that it would be one of those guick to light....quick to burn out kind of things. We have been seeing each other for 2 Months exactly. I talk to him everyday usually multiple times a day. We end up being able to get together about 3 times a week and instead of getting boring, or comfortable, it just keeps getting better. He has a job interview last week for job change within his company, and a follow up this week. I believe that he has gotten the position that he wants. Big down side he is moving 4 hours away. I know that his wife does not fulfill him emotionally or sexually, He spend most of their "joint hours at home" at his parents house or asleep. I have been telling myself that this move will be good for him career wise and personally. I have figured that since his parents and her's as well will be 4 hours away also that they will either get closer together and make their marriage work, or it will split them totally apart without me anywhere in the picture to help or hider. He says he will be back everyweekend, which I know is bunk. Am I thinking on the right track, or am I way off base here.
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