tine_23 Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Why do guys are capable of sleeping with a girl and then get her out of their lifes as if they never knew them... WHY DO GUYS ACT THAT WAY????
sickkitty Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 id love to no babe i really would, it seems u have to go though the bad ones b4 u reach the good............. i thought i found a great gut but then he dates somr one else after a week of dumping me! It really is a cruel world
Ruff Ryder Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Well you see the thing in this case is there was no level of attraction. Lets face it if I guy can sleep with a girl one night and move on the next day he was not attracted to her. It was a score in his black book. I know of girls who can do the same thing. Its all about attraction, if your attracted to someone you will do everything you can to be with them (not in love attraction) love comes after attraction. But if your not attracted to someone then there is nothing really you or him/her can do about it. That is how people can sleep with eachother and be gone by daybreak. Cause attraction and all will be good.
Pantero Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I agree with Ruff Ryder, but can you give us some more circumstances surrounding your break-up? Are you talking about one night stands or a broken relationship w/ NC following?
P1xie Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Sometimes it's the challange of getting the person in bed. If there are no real feelings for the other person then the excitement and mystery is gone after they scored, so it's off to the next victim.
Author tine_23 Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 hey thanxs all for your answers... Pantero...i'm talking about broken relationship with NC... ( I left him...) The thing is...we had been going out for a month and he had told me he loved me (even after the sex...) then the next week after we sleep together he starts acting weird...he was not as affectionnate and didn't share as much as before... he started to work out for his triathlon again and didn't have as much time for me... like he didn't care... I freaked out...I was calling more often (like once a day) and I guess he freaked out too cuz I was calling more often...so before I was gonna get hurt even more I left him...actually he didn't wanna end things all the way so he proposed that we keep seeing each other but not as a couple...and if we have to do this for a month or even 5...at least at the end we'll be together... but we ended up not seeing and I got mad and we got in a fight... and later that week he told me he doesn't have time right now for a relationship... he kept saying...not right now... I was soooo mad! and now he seems mad too...and it's like he never cared that we're not together anymore...like he never was sad about it...and he doesn't wanna talk to me... it makes me mad and we got in one or 2 fights... it's like if I never existed...i guess... he makes me feel like sh*t... do you think it's possible that he's mad cuz I left him...hurt his pride or something?... I miss him... Is it possible that maybe he did like me and did fall in love with me but realized that he is not ready for a serious relationship... (he did tell me he wanted a resious thing...not just 3 months...) so he's looking around...but still like me??...and acts like he doesn't??? he kept me on his msn...has not blocked me so I still see when he's online... when we are talking with friends around a table he doesn't look at me one during a whole hour even thought he's sitting almost right in front of me......isn't it weird??...is it possible not to care that much??
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