konfused Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 My ex and I had been on a break for a few months and then got back together. A few weeks later she tells me she is going on a weekend with her ex boyfreind and another couple and then camping with only her ex. When I tell her how I don't like the sound of this she simply says "it's already planned". This is one of many instances. In retrospect, the crap I tolerated makes me absolutely sick. If I could go back in time I would kick my own a**. Anyone feel the same way?
sickkitty Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Yep im right there with ya, if u go in to the coping foroom and read my thread " i feel sp stupid" i wish i never meet my ex coz he has screwed me over and is happy with another girl (who i new he'd get with by the way) R u to still 2gether? if u r id have a good long think if this girl is really right for u x Amanda x
superconductor Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 My ex and I had been on a break for a few months and then got back together. A few weeks later she tells me she is going on a weekend with her ex boyfreind and another couple and then camping with only her ex. When I tell her how I don't like the sound of this she simply says "it's already planned". This is one of many instances. In retrospect, the crap I tolerated makes me absolutely sick. If I could go back in time I would kick my own a**. Anyone feel the same way? Didn't you get the memo? "Taking a break" = "We're through." I hear ya, though. Best we can do in a situation like this is take it as a lesson learned.
richardcruz Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 My ex told me in her words that " I ruined her life" and asked me "what do you want from me, you want me to tell you off so you'll get the message?." And what do I do a month after? I (swallowing my pride) go buy her an engagement ring. We had discussed getting engaged when we were in our relationship. When I told her that I had a suprise for her, she guessed it immediately and said "it better not be an engagement ring because if it is you better return it, I dont want to marry you!" (oouuch) Konfused if you feel like stupid ass for what you did, then that means I am the king of all stupid asses, which is a title that makes me feel like crap because I put up with all her sh*t. Now I have been NC for a month and some weeks. Slowly but surely I'm getting my pride back..
Author konfused Posted August 10, 2006 Author Posted August 10, 2006 Just remembe richardcruz, you're not going back to the old richardcruz. You'll be returning to the new and improved richardcruz. At the very least wiser. Love is the hardest drug I ever kicked.
MrPot Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 *** best post I've seen all day *** Short and concise. We've probably all been there. I've been used by my recent ex for over a year, and I finally grew a penis this past week and told her to take a hike (that is to say, she doesn't get my friendship anymore). The best way to look at events like this is realize what you learned from it. If it weren't for wakeup calls like this, how much of your life would you have spent as a nutless wonder? Too long, that's for sure. In retrospect, we should all be thanking our heartless ex's for saving us from heartbreaks later in life.
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