Guest Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Hello to you all, I have spent the entire morning reading the forum threads. It's very interesting. My story is so long and complicated and i don't feel like going through it from the beginning (there are 10 years of marriage, and 17 years of dating in this story...) BUT what I do need from you is a bibliography of books that can help me go through this step of announcing the news (we have been trying to work this relationship for years, and I think we are both tired of it, but my H doesn't want to take the big step). I live in Europe so it's hard for me to go to the local bookstore's self-help section.... Can anyone give me references? Thanks!
Gunny376 Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 But, it seems to me that the way most American's handle this is to wait until the other person is a happy as can be, thinks everythings is just fine, and the one fine day walk up to you and say: "Its over! See ya! Wouldn't won't to be you!" Throw you under the bus as it passes by, and keeps on moving!"
Lor Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Can't help with the self-help books sorry. You think he's tired of it? don't put words in his mouth, ask him before you make this decision. Don't throw the guy under a bus--it hurts like hell.
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