clandestine Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 A couple years ago, I had a friend(girl) that I talked to quite often. Since then, we've stopped talking, our 'hello's' in the hallways of school has turned into a walk by with no acknowledgement. Even though its been awhile, I've always been very interested in her and I regret for not ever continuing the relationship and taking it further. Since highschool is now over, and we're both going to post-secondary, the only way to contact her would be by phone. What I was thinking would be that I call her, ask her whats shes doing, then ask her to go talk over some coffee/drinks. Is this a good idea? Am I being too forward? Any suggestions/opinions are greatly appreciated!
lovestruck234 Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Shoud I? Yep, definitley! This is just my suggestion...ring her, for sure, and maybe skip the coffee part, unless you feel she would be ok with it. Maybe just chat with her for a while, find out what's going on in her part of the world and work with that. I would be thrilled if I were her! That's just me but I would have so much mroe respect for you if you rang, it'a showing that you're confident and you stillw ant to pursue the friendship, even if it's just a friendship, nothing more... It's all up to you. My bet, you take the plunge, ring her, and you'll be cracking off like fireworks the way you were a couple of years ago. You'll be great!
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