lo_lo Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 ok!! I have this bf!! and sometimes he can be "lovable" and sometimes he can be really bossy!! ( i moved out of my house due to family problems so his family took me in) So sometimes he tells "Lorena, heat up my tortillas i'm hungry" or "make sure you fold my clothes please" ( he says please, but still he makes me do it cuz i guess he wants to look good or something!! yea....... i don't know!! and today he told me that im not allowed to ask anyone in the house for rides anywhere except for him!!!! WTF!!!!! ) oh, and yesterday at dinner he made me feel embarrased because we were eating and his sister (who is my friend) asked me what i wanted to drink. there were two cokes on the table and she asked me if i wanted one, and i did, so i yes. she handed it to me, and he yelled out, "hey! i thought i told you youre not supposed to drink soda anymore. dont drink it." his sister got mad and asked him who he was to tell me what i can or cannot drink, but i didn't say anything. i did want the soda though, but i didnt drink it because of him. i feel like such a push over. i mean, i didnt come here to live with him really. i just came here because his sister is my good friend and her parents told me i could stay for a while. i moved in with her family, i didnt move in to live with HIM. and plus he never takes me anywhere i want to go. only to church because hes really into it, but im not. and if my friend (his sister) wants to go out and just hang out outside the house for a little while, he gets angry! he said im not "allowed" to go out with anyone or anywhere if he isnt with me, yet he can go out wherever and with whomever he wants!!! i feel like i have strong feelings for him, but sometimes i dont. its weird. its like i do care for him a lot, but his personality drives me away. i even told him i loved him and he answered, "oh, i know" !!! i felt like crap. what should i do? should i break it off with him or should i wait it out?? the problem is that i live here and i dont want to make trouble. should i talk to him and just ask to be friends and let things be like they were or what? thanks in advance for the advice. -lolo
Guest Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 thats a tough desicion for you, just because of the fact that you live there. I would see if i can stay with a friend for awhile or just find a place to stay, and dump him. he sounds like an ass. i dont want to sound mean or anything but you can do better then that.
cantshakethelove Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 You need to take a stand for yourself. This situation could get ugly and you dont want the abuse to get physical. You need to make sure you let him know you are not going to continue to allow him to treat you like this. He is obviously taking you for granted and it is time to teach him a lesson. Take the reigns for awhile and show him who's the boss. If he continues to treat you like dirt, get out and do not speak to him. No man should ever treat a woman like this.
littlepiggy1 Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 Dump him. He does sound like an ass and if you are feeling like **** because of his behavior, then get out of that situation. Obviously, it's going to be tough because you are living with him, so first you have to figure out where you are going to go.
incognito Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 what should i do? should i break it off with him or should i wait it out?? what would you be waiting for exactly? ...him to beat the crap out of you the next time you don't "listen" and do as you're told?
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