Why do women like losers / idiots / choads?

[blind_otter]

Yeah and where does women's vagina size come into this??? Its not just the men who are the variable. A long and thin penis with a very tight vagina would work OK. A long and thin penis with a loose vagina would not work.

 

Come on people! Jesus ******* Christ

 

I happen to have a very tight vag. No joke, I can't use diaphragms because even the smallest size doesn't fit me. And I'm sorry but a pencil penis won't cut it. Much less a mosquito dick.

[stillafool]

Here's the deal:

 

I see beautiful women all of the time with guys with huge guts, nasty tattoos, no job and criminal histories.

 

I also witness plenty of women "head over heels" for guys that treat them badly, inlcuding being unfaithful.

 

What gives?

 

I'm a woman and I have to admit it does seem that a lot of women are running past the good guys to get to the "bad boys". I think women's egos are huge and they see the "bad boy" as a challenge. If they are unlucky enough to "get him" they feel as if they were the most beautiful girl because he chose them. It's also about the sex. If a man makes a woman feel good in bed it's hard to let them go.

 

Now before you go flaming me, I base this information on years of experience.

 

I have a friend who is very stable, decent looking, just bought a house and his gf of 6 years dumps him! WTF?

 

What was her reason? Maybe she had a good one.

 

I have dated many women that it did not work out with because

 

1) They wanted to "date around"

 

2) They are not ready for a "relationship"

 

And there is a plethora of other reasons. But then I will see them weeks later hanging all over some guy that I know is bad news (as described above).

 

Now I have a stable career, a home business, 2 cars, a nice apartment and a ripped body. But I am 29 and single because the moment a woman starts "flaking out" I call her out on it.

 

I have at least 5 friends who fit this description and they are ALL single.

 

Now I am not a womanizer but I feel this is partly a result of American society.

 

here are my reasons:

 

1) Women are coddled since birth. They most often get special treatment as a child because they are "pretty" and feminine and then they grow to expect the same treatment in adulthood.

 

If this were true then why did you say above plenty of women are going for guys who treat them like s--t? Perhaps all the coddling is making them want something different.

 

2) Women get away with a lot more than a man can. if a woman abuses a man (it does happen more fothen than you think) and he retaliates to control her - who do you trhink is going to jail? Not the woman!

 

3) Women want a fairy tale relationship. I mean get real here! A lot of women flake out at the first sign of a flaw in a man and dump him. get a grip ladies! You are not perfect, neither is the man and there is no such thing as happily ever after. A relationship takes work and understanding... not to mention communication. There NEVER will be a happily ever after!

 

4) Women are more emotional than a man. While this is mostly true, another double standard thrives here. If a man puts a woman down (whether it is a valid reason or not) he is instantly labeled as a dick head. Wher eif a woman does it to a man - he is expected to just take it and "be a man".

 

Now go ahead and flame me ladies, I could use the entertainment.

 

 

I won't flame you because I can imagine your confusion as a young man on the dating scene. I also notice a lot of young men seem to only want to date the most beautiful girls. So it isn't easy for young women either.

[stillafool]

You don't know me, so don't act like you do.

 

have you ever dated a separated person who manipulated you?

 

have you ever worked your ass off to pay all the bills and let your partner live for free (to help with her school) only to find she is cheating with a drug dealer?

 

Have you ever had your partner cheat on you with your best friend after 3 years?

 

Have you ever had a partner who you were with for 4 years that said she did want to be in a relationship and then is engaged to some rich person in like 2 months?

 

I didn't think so. PROOF again. I doubt you will respond though.

 

 

We've all kissed some frogs in our time. You have to learn from a cheating partner's character so as to know what not to end up with in the next relationship. Maybe you are picking the wrong women. Examine yourself and ask were there "red flags"?

[Tenorman]

Just make being nice a precious and rare commodity and be nice only when she is being nice and you (and she) will be right.

[Guest]

I happen to have a very tight vag. No joke, I can't use diaphragms because even the smallest size doesn't fit me. And I'm sorry but a pencil penis won't cut it. Much less a mosquito dick.

 

But then again, i don't know of any women who would admit otherwise.

 

I can tell you are of of those.

[Marquis-de-Carabas]

Here's the deal:

 

I see beautiful women all of the time with guys with huge guts, nasty tattoos, no job and criminal histories.

 

I also witness plenty of women "head over heels" for guys that treat them badly, inlcuding being unfaithful.

 

What gives?

 

Now before you go flaming me, I base this information on years of experience.

 

I have a friend who is very stable, decent looking, just bought a house and his gf of 6 years dumps him! WTF?

 

I have dated many women that it did not work out with because

 

1) They wanted to "date around"

 

2) They are not ready for a "relationship"

 

And there is a plethora of other reasons. But then I will see them weeks later hanging all over some guy that I know is bad news (as described above).

 

Now I have a stable career, a home business, 2 cars, a nice apartment and a ripped body. But I am 29 and single because the moment a woman starts "flaking out" I call her out on it.

 

 

 

Gotta love the flamers, they keep the rooms warm.

 

First of all, I wonder what this dude's definition of "flake out" is. Does this woman ask for attention from you and you're not in the mood to give her that?

 

All of this "Now I have a stable career, a home business, 2 cars, a nice apartment and a ripped body." spanks of self-absorption and a need for stuff. Suprise, suprise if the lady in your life would want something of value from you if you would think of that as "flaking out" You keep your money really tightly to your well-toned chest.

 

Those ladies that fawn over bad-guys are whack jobs. That's it. They may look good on the outside but DANG it would take a therapist years to straighten her out. Yet these are the ladies that you wish were on your arm? Why? to make you look good??

 

Give the "all women blah blah blah" thing a rest. There are decent, honest, attractive women out there, BUT they would not be interested in a greedy, superficial guy ~cough~ like yourself. They like men with more personality, and perhaps some down-home intelligence. They like a guy who can think of more than aquisitions and how to spend more time in the gym for ripped abs.

[everybody_chill]

 

Those ladies that fawn over bad-guys are whack jobs. That's it. They may look good on the outside but DANG it would take a therapist years to straighten her out. Yet these are the ladies that you wish were on your arm? Why? to make you look good??

 

Give the "all women blah blah blah" thing a rest. There are decent, honest, attractive women out there, BUT they would not be interested in a greedy, superficial guy ~cough~ like yourself. They like men with more personality, and perhaps some down-home intelligence. They like a guy who can think of more than aquisitions and how to spend more time in the gym for ripped abs.

 

Once again, I was simply stating the facts. I really do not see a valid point here. Sounds like the famous last words of a fat person. No I like fat people, I just don't date them.

 

Now come on fat people and tell me how superficial I am!

 

I respect the fact that someone takes care of their body - apparently you do not see the value in that, OR having a path in life (career, goals) so you would never be able to understand.

 

When did I ever say "ALL WOMEN" anywhere? I only stated most women along with relevant, factual based information to back it up.

[everybody_chill]

We've all kissed some frogs in our time. You have to learn from a cheating partner's character so as to know what not to end up with in the next relationship. Maybe you are picking the wrong women. Examine yourself and ask were there "red flags"?

 

I have NEVER dated a woman without red flags everywhere. I have have dated at Least 30 women in my lifetime.

 

Once again, more facts - not speculation.

[everybody_chill]

I happen to have a very tight vag. No joke, I can't use diaphragms because even the smallest size doesn't fit me. And I'm sorry but a pencil penis won't cut it. Much less a mosquito dick.

 

I would be worried about any woman who has to state her "VAG" is tight!

 

RED FLAG!!

 

RUN AWAY!!

[everybody_chill]

 

 

Also, have you ever considered that there's something about you that draws you to uber-hot women who are messed up in the head? Maybe, subconsciously, you're seeking out these women who just aren't good for you. Do you meet your women in bars and nightclubs? You can also meet attractive women in bookstores, at the gym, volunteer work, clubs, etc. I've never had much luck in finding stable, intelligent women in bars (though I'm sure they're out there, just not in high numbers). Maybe you need to rethink your entire scheme for meeting women.

 

I just like "uber-hot" women. Always have always will. Just seems like the majority of them have major issues, like I stated in my first post.

 

And I have already been told how superficial I am.

[everybody_chill]

 

Give the "all women blah blah blah" thing a rest. There are decent, honest, attractive women out there, BUT they would not be interested in a greedy, superficial guy ~cough~ like yourself. They like men with more personality, and perhaps some down-home intelligence. They like a guy who can think of more than aquisitions and how to spend more time in the gym for ripped abs.

 

I have dumped many a hot woman for being an idiot. In fact, right now I am on a roll.

 

Am I still superficial?