Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 oh yeah...sign me up...pleeease? Sorry, I don't date girls with flabby arms. Big turn off! Maybe you should be jogging on the beach instead of drawing pretty little hearts. Seriously, don't get mad I was just kidding! I like to laugh
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Sorry, I don't date girls with flabby arms. Big turn off! Maybe you should be jogging on the beach instead of drawing pretty little hearts. Seriously, don't get mad I was just kidding! I like to laugh Yo! I know who you are...you're Timidity? Right? Yeah. Of course you are. Same guy. I'm almost positive.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 ummm..how old are you? Not for love connections, but cause I was wondering how many years you've had damage done? I have 30 years of experience with this great culture.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Yo! I know who you are...you're Timidity? Right? Yeah. Of course you are. Same guy. I'm almost positive. Sure, I will be who ever you want me to be - It's your fairy tale, tell it how you want to.
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Sure, I will be who ever you want me to be - It's your fairy tale, tell it how you want to. Yeah, my intuition is a curse and a gift.
norajane Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I initially chose them because they are attractive and fun to be with. The rest comes later. Is my approach in fault? Maybe 'the rest' should come sooner rather than later. Lots of people are attractive and fun to be with, but they aren't honest, responsible, or share your values. Maybe if you learned more about them sooner, you'd avoid the bad apples. It's not that hard to see through the liars and fakes and just plain mean people. Pay attention to how they treat people, people like waiters and taxi drivers and cashiers. Pay attention to how they treat their family members. Notice their close friends and what they are like. When you're out together, does she crave attention and flirt with other guys, or is she more interested in what you have to say? Find out who they admire...are they celebrities or people of substance? Do they read only fashion and make-up magazines, or do they actually have bookshelves with books they've read? If you go for a walk, is she more concerned about what the wind is doing to her hair or your conversation?
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Maybe 'the rest' should come sooner rather than later. Lots of people are attractive and fun to be with, but they aren't honest, responsible, or share your values. Maybe if you learned more about them sooner, you'd avoid the bad apples. It's not that hard to see through the liars and fakes and just plain mean people. Pay attention to how they treat people, people like waiters and taxi drivers and cashiers. Pay attention to how they treat their family members. Notice their close friends and what they are like. When you're out together, does she crave attention and flirt with other guys, or is she more interested in what you have to say? Find out who they admire...are they celebrities or people of substance? Do they read only fashion and make-up magazines, or do they actually have bookshelves with books they've read? If you go for a walk, is she more concerned about what the wind is doing to her hair or your conversation? Sheer brilliance!
Blackfrost Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 So what exactly are you expecting to hear from the women on this board? Do you want them to confirm something for you - so you can walk away saying "i knew it!!" but where does that leave you in the end? Believe me chill, i've been with just as many screwed up women as you have, and it's sad: but you have to keep digging through the baggage pile until you find one that's brand new and undamaged. Finding the right girl, and not letting the bad ones damage you forever, is a hell of a lot of hardwork. good luck
Touche Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Black and Nora..EXCELLENT posts. So much truth to all of that. Just wanted to add also that I think you'll find as you get older and date older women, your perceptions may change. Your viewpoint is skewed and quite sad. I dated MANY frogs but I never thought all men were frogs. I knew there were some princes out there. I just didn't meet mine until I was in my 30's. It gets hard sometimes but don't allow yourself to become bitter. It will show. And it's a turnoff. Give each new person a chance. In my opinion you are becoming weak. Only the VERY strong, the ones who perserve and don't give in to your way of thinking, meet their soulmates. I had many moments of starting to think about the opposite sex just as you do. But I wouldn't indulge myself in that kind of negative and ignorant thinking. Nor should you. Hang in there and much luck to you!
crazy_grl Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 but you have to keep digging through the baggage pile until you find one that's brand new and undamaged. Finding the right girl, and not letting the bad ones damage you forever, is a hell of a lot of hardwork. Blackforest, I agree with you except on this one slight point. There are very very very few people in the world who are undamaged in any way. If you find someone who claims to be damage and/or heartbreak free, I'd be very skeptical... and somewhat worried. The trick is to find someone who recognizes their damage and their scars and has dealt with them in a positive manner to overcome them. So... not necessarily someone who is brand new and undamaged so much as someone who is beautifully repaired.
Pyro Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Women who go for these type of guys are not aware that they are going for the wrong kind of guy. They will realize through time that these type of guys are not right for them and they will meet the right kind of guy. Either that or they lack self-esteem and that is the only type of guy that they think that they can get.
Sand&Water Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Now I have a stable career, a home business, 2 cars, a nice apartment and a ripped body. But I am 29 and single because the moment a woman starts "flaking out" I call her out on it. You don't have to abide by society's rules of thumb. And, that is what you're doing. You are living your life by someone else's standards. Where are your standards? Where is your identity? It seems like you've blurred and sculpted your personal image into something unrealistically and profoundly seen as the "Choosen Way of Life" by American society as a whole. You are being swept under the rug, while everyone else is enjoying the view. I think you are missing a significant variable in your equation. Might take you a while to figure it out but with enough brain chemistry you'll connect the dots. I'd like to call it 'Male Substance'. Which means, one (male) should be able to develop a healthy personality that emcompasses his true nature, and shows his attractive traits/qualities. Hence the term 'Male Substance'. Women aren't attracted to boring, repeatitive males. Men have to develop a better way of expressing themselves without making it too flimsy. Seriously, though, some women just like to chase after complex dudes. Plainly put, gentlemen aren't that complex in nature.
stoopid_guy Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Seriously, though, some women just like to chase after complex dudes. Plainly put, gentlemen aren't that complex in nature. Is that your definition of "gentleman?" Not complex? A man might hold the door for you, love kittens, cook, and properly groom himself. That exact same man might be very capable of violence, have little regard for the law, and be "wanted" in multiple countries. I might still consider him a "gentleman."
alphamale Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Alpha, you have like a million posts here and most of your advice falls into one category "masculinity". A real joker. I guess me and friends are not masculine because I don't have a nasty tattoo on my neck or a beer gut. I really think you do not know what you are talking about. Masculinty is different things to different people. OK, whatever you say Mr. 39 Posts-and-counting. You don't know me, so don't act like you do. Likewise to you E_C.
blind_otter Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 "You don't KNOW me!" That is so daytime TV. But apparently you know all women, who are petty and materialistic. I could say the same to you Mr. No personal concept of your identity, 2 cars, home business, ripped body. welcome to loveshack.
arniebuteft Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 You've got to start realizing that no matter how hot a woman is, if she's more interested in drug dealers and abusive men than normal guys, she's f*cked up in the head and isn't worth your time. This is really pretty simple when it comes down to it. You're apparently only interested in the most attractive women, who often wind up a little screwed up, since they're used to getting attention from men, and they'll usually get their way if they use their looks. I note you're also 29, which probably means you're looking at women who are even younger than that. Interest in destructive relationships and men who treat them like a**holes tends to wane as women get older, but you'll find it still present in significant quantities in 20-something uber-hot women. Maybe you need to focus on women who are 29-30 (if you're not already doing it). Women who are in their 30s and still enjoy a**hole men who verbally and physically abuse them, are jobless losers, etc.... well, those women have serious problems of their own, and you don't want anything to do with them. Also, have you ever considered that there's something about you that draws you to uber-hot women who are messed up in the head? Maybe, subconsciously, you're seeking out these women who just aren't good for you. Do you meet your women in bars and nightclubs? You can also meet attractive women in bookstores, at the gym, volunteer work, clubs, etc. I've never had much luck in finding stable, intelligent women in bars (though I'm sure they're out there, just not in high numbers). Maybe you need to rethink your entire scheme for meeting women.
alphamale Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 ...the most attractive women, who often wind up a little screwed up, since they're used to getting attention from men, and they'll usually get their way if they use their looks. Thats the understmt of the year ARNIEBUTEFT... What is a choad? a hybrid cross between a chamelion and toad
blind_otter Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 What is a choad? My favorite definition from the urban dictionary: choad (1) A penis, usually wider than long. (eg Have you seen Danny's choad? That thing looks like a hockey puck!) (2) The perenium, the area in between the scrotum and anus. Also called grundle, gooch, taint, or durf. (eg Remember kids: Never wipe backwards, or you'll smear feces all over your choad.) (3) A chunky load. (eg Sheila said she spent an hour cleaning off that choad he blew on her face.)
Asafan Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 My favorite definition from the urban dictionary: choad (1) A penis, usually wider than long. (eg Have you seen Danny's choad? That thing looks like a hockey puck!) (2) The perenium, the area in between the scrotum and anus. Also called grundle, gooch, taint, or durf. (eg Remember kids: Never wipe backwards, or you'll smear feces all over your choad.) (3) A chunky load. (eg Sheila said she spent an hour cleaning off that choad he blew on her face.) :lmao: :lmao: ROTFLMAO.
alphamale Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 My favorite definition from the urban dictionary: choad (1) A penis, usually wider than long. (eg Have you seen Danny's choad? That thing looks like a hockey puck!) (2) The perenium, the area in between the scrotum and anus. Also called grundle, gooch, taint, or durf. (eg Remember kids: Never wipe backwards, or you'll smear feces all over your choad.) (3) A chunky load. (eg Sheila said she spent an hour cleaning off that choad he blew on her face.) where the hell do you get his **** from?
Outcast Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 definition from the urban dictionary: ...................................
bluechocolate Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Though alpha's is probably the correct definition in this context, I must say I prefer otter's.
blind_otter Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Well now I understand why women like choads. Because it's all about girth, baby. Who wants a long thin penis? I don't!
alphamale Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Because it's all about girth, baby. Who wants a long thin penis? I don't! Yeah and where does women's vagina size come into this??? Its not just the men who are the variable. A long and thin penis with a very tight vagina would work OK. A long and thin penis with a loose vagina would not work. Come on people! Jesus ******* Christ
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