burning 4 revenge Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Yes, b4r is correct, OP. All women blah blah blah. All men blah blah blah. I'm sorry that a particular female treated you this way. Perhaps you should examine the types of women you tend to be attracted to.B O, you know you've said that you tend to be friends with men more than women. Why is that? I'm sure that not all men are blah, blah, blah and all women are blah blah, blah, but there sure are tendencies to said bla, blah, blahness
blind_otter Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 B O, you know you've said that you tend to be friends with men more than women. Why is that? As a rule I don't get along with women. I would be the first to admit that my line of thinking does not generally jive with that of most women. I have a select few female friends but they all definately don't fall into the "normal" category. Yeah, there are certain reasons why people do say "all women....." or "all men...." in every fiction is a kernel of truth, I suppose. I mean, I was one of those women who fall for jerks. I still am to some extent. But for none of the reasons listed by the OP. I wasn't coddled, I had the sh*t beat of of me with a stick on a regular basis. I am and have always been a vocal proponent of "mutually abusive relationships" where the females engage in crazymaking behaviors to incite physical violence on some subconscious level. But I think that men and women are not just socialized differently - they are organically and elementally different creatures. And a lot of problems would be solved if we attended to the communication issues that are always present when there is a wide gulf separating different groups of people. Even though I tend to have few women friends, I am nothing but a woman. Crazy, emotionally random, and completely inconsistent. IMO women are women, men are men, and never the twain shall meet.
burning 4 revenge Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Even though I tend to have few women friends, I am nothing but a woman. Crazy, emotionally random, and completely inconsistent. IMO women are women, men are men, and never the twain shall meet.Uh oh. You better not generalize B.O., some crazy emotionally random and inconsistent chick might hit the alert button on your post
stoopid_guy Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 I guess me and friends are not masculine because I don't have a nasty tattoo on my neck or a beer gut. Beer guts are masculine? WOO-HOO! "Macho-macho maaaan, I've got to be... a macho man...." (Actually, mine's mostly "pasta gut," but shhh... don't tell the ladies.)
Blackfrost Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I'm very curious are to where you picked up that word "choad" I know only a handful of people who use it........scary if I knew you
burning 4 revenge Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I'm very curious are to where you picked up that word "choad" I know only a handful of people who use it........scary if I knew youI've heard the expression "choad-smoker" a number of times It refers to a penis that is fatter than it is long
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Gotta love the broad generalizations and sterotypical thoughts. Least you could do is be a little creative... although I did like the biker-beer gut twist you put on this one. That was inventive. Same story, different screen name. Its sad to see such confusion in someone. Pull your undescended nut sake out, square your shoulders and be a MAN!! Stop blaming women because you got passed over for another schmuck. Finger points at you and no one else. You find fault in EVERYONE but yourself. Her, the biker guy, your friends gf.... you're blameless. The uncontested victim of a conspirecy against you.. The world must be out to get you... so sad..must suck to live that way. The rest of us though... we'll look inside ourselves, try to fix what is fixable inside ourselves. We'll grow as individuals and attract other people who will want to stay in our lives because they share our strength and balance. You on the other hand, are stumbling all over the dang place. No strength, and no balance. Wow. I was hoping you could be much more inventive than this. So I blame everyone but myself? Umm hmm. I have heard that one before. Come on now, do you blame yourself for your ex-boyfriend cheating? What sense would that make? So I should blame myself every time a woman gets whacko. Would that make me more of a man? There we go with the be a man crap again. You will not find me apologizing for actually caring about the sad state of American Culture. I am curious, how do I have blame for my friend's girlfriend? I am simply stating PROOF of the fact that a lot of women I know and know of are screwed up. Sorry you can't handle that.
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 A lot of women flake out at the first sign of a flaw in a man and dump him. There NEVER will be a happily ever after! Well I guess here is the blame you don't own. Instead of trying to work through your 'flaw', you choose to keep it. Then you meet someone new. Different girl, same garbage. Unless she is the same exact girl, you would have to be partially responsible, don't you think? And no happy ever after would be a total turn-off for me. Who wants a guy with such a bogus outlook on life anyway?
Guest Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Well I guess here is the blame you don't own. Instead of trying to work through your 'flaw', you choose to keep it. Then you meet someone new. Different girl, same garbage. Unless she is the same exact girl, you would have to be partially responsible, don't you think? And no happy ever after would be a total turn-off for me. Who wants a guy with such a bogus outlook on life anyway? Let me know when you find your happily ever after. Grow up.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Different girl, same garbage. Unless she is the same exact girl, you would have to be partially responsible, don't you think? Unless the majority of women out there are garbage. American culture has problems. Try facing them like I am doing. And no happy ever after would be a total turn-off for me. Who wants a guy with such a bogus outlook on life anyway? Do you want your daddy to read you a bed time story, little one?
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Do you want your daddy to read you a bed time story, little one? I think you ought to change your user name to 'i need to chill'. Just my observation, Papa.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Well I guess here is the blame you don't own. Instead of trying to work through your 'flaw', you choose to keep it. Then you meet someone new. Different girl, same garbage. Unless she is the same exact girl, you would have to be partially responsible, don't you think? And no happy ever after would be a total turn-off for me. Who wants a guy with such a bogus outlook on life anyway? You don't know me, so don't act like you do. have you ever dated a separated person who manipulated you? have you ever worked your ass off to pay all the bills and let your partner live for free (to help with her school) only to find she is cheating with a drug dealer? Have you ever had your partner cheat on you with your best friend after 3 years? Have you ever had a partner who you were with for 4 years that said she did want to be in a relationship and then is engaged to some rich person in like 2 months? I didn't think so. PROOF again. I doubt you will respond though.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 I think you ought to change your user name to 'i need to chill'. Just my observation, Papa. Your certainly entitled to voice your opinion. I just don't happen to care what it is. You're just defensive because you know I am right and I could go on and on making valid point after point based on fact to back up my position. What do you have to back up your point of view? A bunch of foundless cliches and a happily ever after child-like perception. I do hope that you find reality someday, before it finds you.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 You might like to check out Ross_K's posts. I have already read some of those, good stuff. That's part of the problem, people like him. I know you weren't comparing me to him though, cause I would have to punch you square in your mouth. Oh wait, I can't do that, you're a woman.
riobikini Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 re: Nikki: " Don't you get it? These women are not attracted to normal, wonderful guys. That's why they are crazy. And you wouldn't want them. " I agree with Nikki. -Rio
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 You don't know me, so don't act like you do. have you ever dated a separated person who manipulated you? Have you ever had a partner who you were with for 4 years that said she did want to be in a relationship and then is engaged to some rich person in like 2 months? Okay, I didn't say it's all your fault, just that you have responsibility in the relationships too. Man, you have major issues that you really should address before taking up a new relationship. And I don't say that in a bad way, I'm just calling it as I see it. You were wronged, no doubt. But to let it eat away at your spirit is unhealthy. I was in a nine year marriage to an abusive, narcisstic, manipulative liar and had no way out short of moving my children and myself into a women's shelter, so I know where you're coming from. My exH got engaged last August and I left him in March. That's five months, not two but still. Nine years together. You need to find out why you choose these women to begin with. Get in touch with yourself and your feelings and find out why you are attracted to these dysfunctional women in the first place. There has to be an underlying issue you aren't facing. Creeps don't seek out strong people, they go for what's easy, who's vulnerable, and who's the best candidate that they can take advantage of. You don't need to be hard-nosed or bitter, you just have to set higher standards for yourself. But first you need to believe you are worthy of a good woman. Do you honestly believe that?
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I do hope that you find reality someday, before it finds you. My reality doesn't involve people of your caliber, no offense. I know that ultimately I am responsible for my own choices, and I know I would never choose to be in your company. Again, no offense.
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Okay, I am honestly enjoying the conversation here. I will try to respond as best I can.... Okay, I didn't say it's all your fault, just that you have responsibility in the relationships too. Man, you have major issues that you really should address before taking up a new relationship. I would really like to know what those issues are. i can honselty say that I have taken a long, hard look at myself and I am comfortable with who I am. I am bitter in some ways. I guess I see it as being more realistic and learning from experiences. I was in a nine year marriage to an abusive, narcisstic, manipulative liar and had no way out short of moving my children and myself into a women's shelter, so I know where you're coming from. My exH got engaged last August and I left him in March. That's five months, not two but still. Nine years together. I am sorry to hear that. I never siad that there are not bad guys out there. My complaint was that there seem to be a HUGE amount of good guys that get mauled. You need to find out why you choose these women to begin with. I initially chose them because they are attractive and fun to be with. The rest comes later. Is my approach in fault? But first you need to believe you are worthy of a good woman. Do you honestly believe that? Yes, I do. Hence my frustration.
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 it is a love connection, isn't it? oh yeah...sign me up...pleeease?
Author everybody_chill Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 it is a love connection, isn't it? LOL! I did not come here to make a love connection, obviously. I know I would piss off some women, but I speak only the truth and I stand my ground. One more fact that shows a lot of women in a skewed light: why don't most women have close female friends? Because they are too petty and materialistic.
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 why don't most women have close female friends? Because they are too petty and materialistic. ummm..how old are you? Not for love connections, but cause I was wondering how many years you've had damage done?
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