morphius Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 My ex broke up with me after 3 years about 4 weeks ago, She said I broke her heart... I always wanted a family and all the "normal" stuff, But hung back from moving in with her, I guess I just got a bit scared. We hadn't been having much sex for a while, I dont really know why, I guess I was stressed becuse I did want to live with her but was freakin out. So after three days of crying, begging for her to take me back I initiate NC, which goes well for 2 weeks. I went and visited my family and had no contact at all. I get home last week, and broke...I IM'd her, we ended up having a very emotional, 3 hour conversation about what went wrong etc...(I had been drinking so everything came out. I was crying, she was crying. She said that she was seeing someone else and that she needed to do that to stay away from me. There were a million reasons for her to come back and another million that broke her heart. I couldnt believe that she was already seeing someone else, as you can imagine it broke my heart all over again. My fault I know I should have continued with NC. Anyways I didnt speak to her yesterday, but logged on today. She had left me a msg saying that she was going away for a few days but that her new partner was staying at the flat and may use the computer so I shouldnt message her! WTF, Why did she tell me that! Is she sick? Did she want to cause me even more pain? She also wrote that she would "let me know when she was back" I cant eat, sleep, this is truly the most horrible feeling in the world....
johnnytable Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Yes, this truly sucks. She is not being nice to you. I don't care what happened, that is pretty mean. But you know what you did wrong, you broke NC. You must block her.
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